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True or False: I had sex on my wedding night!

Lynnie, on February 5, 2019 at 11:05 AM

Posted in Married Life 62

Bonus question for the married couples!! Did you consummate the marriage on your wedding night? Or did you get too carried away with the celebrations to seal the deal? True or False: I had sex on my wedding night! Thanks for playing with us and confessing all the dirt about your...

Bonus question for the married couples!! Did you consummate the marriage on your wedding night? Smiley love Or did you get too carried away with the celebrations to seal the deal? Smiley shame

True or False: I had sex on my wedding night!


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62 Comments

  • Carissa
    Dedicated September 2018
    Carissa ·
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    False! Not only was it past 2 am and we had to stay and cleanup but my 14 y/o cousin was with us because no one else thought to take her home somehow and she wanted to stay and help out. So we found a cheap hotel near by, booked it and we all crashed. We had all been up till at least 2 am the night before too.

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  • C
    VIP January 2019
    Cassidy ·
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    True, and it was great!
    We stopped 2 months before the wedding and waited for the wedding night, best decision ever. So even though we were tired we still made sure it happened, it was important to us. He even mentioned it during dinner, lol.
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  • Jessica
    Beginner July 2018
    Jessica ·
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    False! We went out to the bar after to keep the party going and all the bar goers bought us drinks since we were still in our wedding attire...got home late and too intoxicated to consummate our marriage. But did the first night of our honeymoon
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  • SummerBrideInAutumn
    VIP October 2019
    SummerBrideInAutumn ·
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    I like to think that we will (It's kinda important to me for some silly reason.), but I'm sure we'll be too tired.

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  • OldSchoolKindaLove
    Devoted September 2018
    OldSchoolKindaLove ·
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    True and not just once but several times. It was great.

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  • Halie
    Beginner October 2021
    Halie ·
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    Wedding night heck yeah we will! If we can even get to where we need to go after the wedding.. haha. My sister wanted to after her wedding but they were so dead tired that they went to the hotel and totally crashed right after.
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  • Jessi
    VIP December 2017
    Jessi ·
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    We got up at 7 am, had family breakfasts and were getting ready, started pics at 2:30, ceremony at 3:30, dinner at 5, out to the bars until midnight and we are in our 40’s so....hell yes we did! Super awesome dirty married sex til 3am. Lol It was fantastic, but we had to get up at 7am again and I ended up with food poisoning so the day after pretty much sucked.

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  • Gabriela
    Dedicated October 2019
    Gabriela ·
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    Not married yet, but I know we will definitely consummate
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  • Molly
    Expert August 2021
    Molly ·
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    Not married yet, but I know we will probably have sex that night. If not maybe the next day because it would be my FH birthday!


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  • Alexandra
    Super December 2018
    Alexandra ·
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    We did not. We were exhausted, and our feet were killing us from dancing so much!! (We had comfy shoes, we just didn't stop dancing and jumping up and down). My husband actually soaked in the tub at 3am and his his feet in epsom salt. lol Smiley laugh

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  • Jasmine
    Rockstar February 2021
    Jasmine ·
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    I would like to say we will but I guess we'll see what happens. Since it's an elopement and possibly no reception, it's hard to tell.

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  • E
    Super October 2017
    Emily ·
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    I was adamant that there was no way in hell I wouldn't be having sex that night.

    We got to our hotel and were chatting while getting ready for bed and my husband had a "proposal" that we please not have bad sex and instead split a beer in our sweats while looking at the photobooth book and cuddling on the couch. I was SO grateful he asked to wait. I had been pretty forceful we HAD to before and there was just no way it would be enjoyable because we had been on all day.

    We slept in, went to a late brunch, I got day drunk, had a wonderful dinner and then wonderful sexy time the next night.

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  • Pattie
    Expert June 2020
    Pattie ·
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    Not sure. Our event end at 10:30, but I teach so my usual bed time is like 9. Might be tired from event aaaaand from staying up later than usual. Or I’ll be totally hyper and full of adrenaline. Who knows. Definitely no pressure, but I have bought some sexy lingerie Smiley winking
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  • Nykole
    Expert October 2019
    Nykole ·
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    Not getting married until October, so I can’t actually answer this yet, BUT... I hope the answer is YES. Haha. I imagine it will be more of a next morning kinda thing though. 😜
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  • Natalia
    Expert October 2020
    Natalia ·
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    I have no idea! I would like to! But that is totally dependent on if we are up to it! He might be drunk, or I might be too tired and not want to! With my rapidly fluctuating hormones, you never know.

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  • Amanda
    Dedicated June 2019
    Amanda ·
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    Didn’t happen. We were exhausted and I was on my period!
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  • A
    Savvy June 2019
    Alyssa ·
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    True! But as some others have said, it was not the best we've had but certainly enjoyable.

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  • Anais
    Beginner September 2019
    Anais ·
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    I doubt that happens. The wedding and preparation is all day!!!!!!!!!!!
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  • Melle
    Rockstar June 2019
    Melle Online ·
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    False. Was way too tired
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  • J
    Dedicated May 2019
    Jennifer ·
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    True! We were exhausted but, I made him wait the entire week of and before that I was recovering from surgery and wasn’t cleared for sex. So really it was like month and a half since we had sex had that point.
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