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True or False: I had sex on my wedding night!

Lynnie, on February 5, 2019 at 11:05 AM

Posted in Married Life 62

Bonus question for the married couples!! Did you consummate the marriage on your wedding night? Or did you get too carried away with the celebrations to seal the deal? True or False: I had sex on my wedding night! Thanks for playing with us and confessing all the dirt about your...

Bonus question for the married couples!! Did you consummate the marriage on your wedding night? Smiley love Or did you get too carried away with the celebrations to seal the deal? Smiley shame

True or False: I had sex on my wedding night!


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62 Comments

  • Tara
    Dedicated August 2019
    Tara
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    Hopefully setting ourselves up for success! Plan is to get up whenever, head to the venue (have everything prepacked the night or days before), we get our hotel room at 1, bum around until 3, then he and I are having lunch and a beer, I go back to the room at 4, he puts up the arbor then while I am having pics with my family, he gets ready. Then it is ceremony is at 7, a few pics, cocktail hour, dinner, cake, and I have already reserved the car to be there 2 hours early in case we want to leave. They can all stay and party, we have an hour and a half limo ride to our hotel for 3 nights. Not spending a ton of time on pics and formality so we don't enjoy ourselves. No first dances, no speeches. But I know if it doesn't happen on the wedding night, he will be way upset and I will forever regret it. This is something we have looked forward to for 3.5 years!

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  • Bluey8616f
    Devoted August 2018
    Bluey8616f
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    False! We were too tired but we didn't even sleep in the same bed. I had an allergic reaction to the hotel sheets and had to sleep on the sofa. It was the detergent or fabric softner. 1st and last time so far that ever happened to me.

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  • Shay
    Expert October 2020
    Shay
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    Oh yes! I鈥檓 most definitely looking forward to being underneath him馃槈but with us being on a red eye flight for X amount of time,just being able to spoon with him will be good with me.
    Happy Planning 馃嵎
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  • Catherine
    VIP November 2019
    Catherine
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    HAHA! YESSSSS. so true

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  • maryann
    Expert June 2019
    maryann
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    I think we might slip away before the reception and have a little fun.... LOL by the time we get back to the hotel I can image we are going to be drained....

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  • Kristy
    Dedicated April 2019
    Kristy
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    I'm buying lingerie and candles just in case, but I'm fully prepared for us to be too tired. I know we're planning to go out to bars with the wedding party after the wedding, which will certainly add to our exhaustion. At least I can save all the stuff I bought for the honeymoon Smiley smile

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  • Mary
    Just Said Yes June 2019
    Mary
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    We might not be able... We have lots of family members coming from outside and I'm sure we'll have visit for a week. But we'll see.
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  • Lindsey M.
    Dedicated September 2018
    Lindsey M.
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    Yep!! We practiced abstinence so this was a big deal for us. Lol. But our wedding ended pretty early so we were at our hotel by maybe 10?
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  • MrsV1027
    Master October 2018
    MrsV1027
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    False Smiley sad I was on the heaviest period I'd had in years

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  • Amanda
    VIP December 2020
    Amanda Online
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    I'm going to go ahead and predict a big fat NO on this one. We are still a year and a half(ish) out but I know us and we will be way too tired (and drinks) to even attempt it. We will have been together almost 5 years and lived together 3 years by that point, I know us well enough to predict. Could be surprised though! Who knows. Smiley laugh Smiley xd

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  • Mrs. Coakley
    Master June 2017
    Mrs. Coakley
    • Flag

    True.... but it was TERRIBLE. We were both way too exhausted. We made up for it on the honeymoon! lol

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  • plangalCG
    VIP May 2018
    plangalCG
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    False鈥攚e were both drunk and I was so full from all the food and drink while stuffed in my wedding dress! We happily cozied up in bed and went to sleep!
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  • plangalCG
    VIP May 2018
    plangalCG
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    Oh you poor thing! Not just the sex but I can鈥檛 imagine dealing with that on top of everything else!
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  • J
    Devoted January 2019
    Jesalina
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    Even as tired as we were we most definitely did! Haha
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  • Mrs. Cohen
    Super October 2018
    Mrs. Cohen
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    Yessss we did lol Smiley xd although I will be completely candid here and say it was in no way the best sex we've had as we were extremely tired from all of the wedding festivities.

    It was much better during the honeymoon when we were well-rested and feeling blissfully in love Smiley heart

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  • TeamTurnage12
    Devoted July 2018
    TeamTurnage12
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    Hate to say it ... false for us !!! We did get it in.But ...we have definitely made up for it !!
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  • Megan
    Expert May 2022
    Megan
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    We hope to when the time comes we do, but to be honest I'm sure he will ask if we can sneak away for a little bit to do it quickly between the ceremony and the reception!馃槒 But yes I'm hoping we aren't too intoxicated or tired by the end of the night.
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  • KitandKaboodle
    Master November 2016
    KitandKaboodle
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    We didn't. It was a very long day and our reception didn't end until almost 2 am. The following morning, we hosted brunch at our home with our immediate family and bridal party and opened our gifts. When I think about it, I don't think we consummated our wedding until the next evening.

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  • Kristine
    Beginner July 2019
    Kristine
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    Haven't gotten married yet.


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  • S
    Savvy September 2018
    Simplicity
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    We def did! We had an early wedding and everything wsa over by 5:30pm! That night at hotel we rest and had time to get it on! felt good after all the stress and anxiety was over!

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