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edecker, on December 20, 2017 at 3:36 PM

bridal cards Is it being bridezilla/extra of me to provide cards to my bridal party with their duties, details for the day, their attire, and (to be frank) what we expect them to pay for? I created one of these for Parents of the Bride, Parents of the Groom, Bridesmaids, and the Groomsmen. I've...

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Is it being bridezilla/extra of me to provide cards to my bridal party with their duties, details for the day, their attire, and (to be frank) what we expect them to pay for? I created one of these for Parents of the Bride, Parents of the Groom, Bridesmaids, and the Groomsmen. I've seen people include these with their Bridal party gifts, but was wondering if anyone else had experience with this or thinks maybe its too demanding? The picture below is from Pinterest:

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DC Wife 10.27.18 · on April 11, 2018 at 12:19 PM
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Yes. Too much.
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Anna · on April 11, 2018 at 3:13 PM
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Personally I think the idea of it is great, but unfortunately a touchy subject when it comes to what you're expecting your girls to pay. Granted it should be even across the board for your girls, but I would talk with each one individually and make sure they all are okay with what is expected of them. If everyone is on board then I would hand out the cards. Having it written down is a great reminder for everyone so that they can hang it on their fridge for friendly reminders.
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T P · on May 4, 2018 at 2:36 PM
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It is always useful to have clear and defined tasks and objectives. If you feel that composing the tasks delegated to a specific person will help keep your day organized, it may well be worth your peace of mind, however, the goodwill between you and your wedding party may be better preserved if you were to speak with each person to request assistance from them for each of the goals you hope they might help you accomplish. Best of luck!
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