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kenzie
Just Said Yes May 2018

Threesome as a wedding present?!

kenzie, on November 5, 2017 at 2:33 PM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 84

My fiancé and I have both expressed interest in a threesome with another woman. We've never acted on the desire mostly because of my insecurities. I would have a threesome in a heartbeat if it was a one night stand but it being my future husband makes it different. I'm worried I will become insecure...

My fiancé and I have both expressed interest in a threesome with another woman. We've never acted on the desire mostly because of my insecurities. I would have a threesome in a heartbeat if it was a one night stand but it being my future husband makes it different. I'm worried I will become insecure and wonder if I will ever be enough thereafter. My fiancé is a-ok with this and does not bring up the subject or push it upon me in any way. If anything I'm the one who brings it up more often in a playful way and frequently watch threesome porn. 

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  • Rya
    Devoted April 2018
    Rya ·
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    Both me and my FH are poly so threesomes are not a new thing. But I agree hun. Your honeymoon is not the right time. Discuss it with him and then perhaps a birthday or anniversary but not your honeymoon. That is you and him time

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  • Rya
    Devoted April 2018
    Rya ·
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    Okay I have to respond to some of the other comment. Yes, I have self respect even though me and my FH have a different type of relationship. If you all knew exactly what it was some of you, specially those spouting religion would pass out (lol). However, this does not make me, my FH, or the OP (whatever her choices in life may be) a bad person.

    Mormons though I am not one for the longest time had more then one wife and to this day some still do. A marriage is a piece of paper it's a civil Union and stands outside of religion. That is why it doesn't matter if your Catholic , Jewish, mormom, atheist, or gay you can still get married in 2017. So be nice to each other.

    It's sad how many posts I read I have to keep saying that to grown men and women.

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  • JDSquared
    VIP August 2017
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    I'd definitely say no to this. Sounds like bad news bears.
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    Dedicated August 2019
    Abigail ·
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    Although this is not my thing, I would give the advice to let your honeymoon be just for the two of you. Then, you can always look back at the honeymoon as a special time for the both of you rather than the what ifs that could happen with this scenario. Just my two cents, hope it all works out!
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