The difference between being mean and being truthful...

Ah, another one of *these* posts.

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@Brandi: IMO, sometimes it's subjective. Some people come in here asking for "honest opinions" but in reality, they only want to be told what they want to hear/read. When someone shares their "honest opinion" they are considered rude. Some people here are blunt, others are sheltered, and well, we have a whole spectrum of other kinds of people in between. Sometimes I think we need tags like THO (Truly Honest Opinion) and INA (I need affirmation). -__-;

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You know, the great thing about this forum is also what makes it volatile - the diversity. Also, when you put a group of women together, they're not all going to get along. Not as easy as say guys do.

Yes, Miya, that is very true. Sometimes peole don't like hearing someone disagree with them. I also agree that everyone is not going to get along. I don't think it's rude for people to share their honest opinion. I just think it's rude to put someone down or try to intentionally make them feel like crap because they have a different belief or opinion. I just see some very harsh things going on...not even on WW. Just seeing or hearing it day after day is gettin to me a little bit. I am talkin about people in general, not just here.

@Miya, well put, however, I think guys go through their own form of this stuff. They just do it differently. LOL!