Survey: Do you get along with your in-laws?

Yep! They're all great and I've never once felt unwelcome around them. Reading some of the stories people on here post makes me so grateful.

I don't speak the same language as my in laws. It's hard to communicate.

I love my FILs!! I feel super blessed! I also get along great with my FBIL and FSIL and luckily my FH gets along great with my parents.

FFILs are really nice. My FH is one of two sons and is first getting married. Both sons never brought girls/women around after one awkward experience with their mom way back in high school so I feel like they sometimes don't know what to do with me. I feel like we are still in the polite stage, but it is getting more comfortable each time we visit with them. I come from a large and loud family so I can make the best of situations.

I absolutely ADORE my FILs!

They'e actually moving from Chicago to Phoenix this week and I could not be more excited to have them nearby.

We are good.... I dont understand them (example one or both might not come to the wedding because of there dogs...) but I like them and they have never shown negativity... Its weird because his mom dosnt reach out and I'm not very social so we dont really communicate, but when I see her she is nice.

Mine are wonderful. We live in the same town and FH is a coach, so FFIL and I go to every football game together. He is really laid back; we have dinner with him about once a week. FMIL lives in Dallas most of the time to take care of FBIL's daughter, but when she's here we get along. She's so excited to help with things for the wedding and I'm glad to have her help!

Mine were amazing. Loved my FMIL sooo much. Then wedding planning happened. Now his family won't speak to any of us.

My FMIL and i are extremely close we talk every single day and she's like a second mother to me. My FFIL passed away when FH was 8yrs old so i never got to meet him

FSIL 1 is amazing and the sweetest thing ever. She's one of my bridesmaids.

FSIL 2 it depends which day you get her lol we are either the best of friends or fight like hell no in between lol but it's not just me she's like that with FH and FMIL as well! She is also one of my bridesmaids. I'd say i'm pretty fortunate!

My FH is not close to his family at all, so we have limited interaction, but my FMIL is great.My FFIL is not so great. FH has a very strained relationship with him, and we only see him once maybe twice a year, so it's manageable.

FFIL is great! Like yours, he's laid back and so nice. FMIL. Well. We get along most of the time. That's about all I can say there.

I love my FILs. FMIL and I are really similar, but she has been wonderful so far in planning in that she doesn't say much. She likes that I am organized and I think she's happy FH ended up with someone like me.

FFIL is so wonderful - he's laid back and just enjoys being around us.

FSIL is a lot different from me but we get along great. She's a little younger than me and I sometimes find her to be a little entitled, but it's nothing we fight about. She just handles things differently than I do. I plan to ask her to be a BM.

A double bonus on top of all of this is our families get along great together and get together for holidays.

There's a bit of a language barrier (nuances in language) for mine but in general they're pretty nice to me. I did have to ask my fiance to talk to them about not speaking their language when it's the four of us at dinner together (they do speak fluent English) because it makes me feel excluded, but after that, things have gone well.

Love, love, love my future in-laws. Beyond blessed!!!

My FH and his family are originally from Colombia although he has been in the states for 10+ years now. He speaks perfect English but his parents still have a hard time with understanding and speaking English. I know very very little Spanish. It's hard to communicate with my ILs. However, they are the sweetest, most welcoming people in the world and have truly accepted me as their daughter.

I've only met my FFIL once because he lives in a different state. My FH's mom passed away a few years ago, unfortunately.

I love hearing all of the positive stories about the in-laws! I see that a couple of you struggle with FBILs or FSILs, too.

FFBIL and his wife are unfortunately kind of competitive toward us, and have not been too friendly or welcoming to me. FBIL's wife has already complained about me to FBIL for a few things that I've done to "offend" her. Which I'm now starting to think is just her not understanding my personality, or trying to.

FFIL died before FH and I started dating. FMIL initially didn't like me (she had "Nobody's Good Enough for MY Son" Syndrome) but she's over it now and is happy that FH and I are getting married.

My future in-laws are great! FH's parents are divorced and each have a SO they have been with for many years. We all get along very well and I love especially when FFIL and his girlfriend come to visit they are a blast! FMIL is one most generous people I have met and is always there if we need her.

I used to like and respect my FMIL...until my FH's brothers also got engaged...now all she talks about is my FSIL's wedding (which is 5 months after mine)...she also disagrees with almost every decision my FH and I make about the wedding

ETA: My FFIL is really laid back...he jokes that we should just go to a JP and be done with it because he thinks weddings are ridiculously expensive and not worth the money...but he respects our decision to have the wedding that we want