Strippers at bachelor party?

It's not degrading or unattractive if someone has silicone boobs. I have fake titties and they're fabulous! Also, I'm not a stripper..... I'm an accountant.

I was stalking this convo yesterday and really have nothing to add except, SARAHMOUCHE. Everything you said.

Don't let your insecurities ruin his last night out he loves YOU and will marry YOU no "stripper" or other woman can take your place no matter how "hot" you may think she is

@Dee, that mentality is one of the reasons I hate the strip club idea. Marriage does not take away either partners freedom to have a night out with their friends apart from each other. OP's feelings are valid, and while having confidence in yourself is important, by feeling the way she does she is by no means "ruining" anything for her FS, especially not a "last night out". That mentality is ridiculous.

Personally strip clubs don't bother me. I wouldn't be surprised if FH gets taken to one for his bachelor party.

I've been to strip clubs before and witnessed a bachelor party. Most likely, you're thinking the worst possible scenario when it really isn't anything close. However I can't speak for all strip clubs, I've only been to a few around town.

View Quoted Comment There is a major difference in a coworker and women with no clothes on! Stop trying to shame someone for not wanting her FH around strippers...that is nowhere near controlling him and if she’s not comfortable with strippers he shouldn’t be around them plain and simple. As for her insecurities most women have them so that’s nothing that is out of the normal. I highly doubt the insecurity was the only reason she didn’t want him going, either way you have no right to judge someone for not wanting their SO around that just like they don’t have a right to judge you for not caring if yours is.

View Quoted Comment I totally agree, I’ve been to strip clubs with my FH, even paid for a lap dance. This has to be her insecurities. I know for a fact my FHs friends will have strippers at his party but so will I lol

My FH is having strippers at his bach too. I feel kind of the same way as you. At his party though it will be a large group of guys which will include my dad/brothers/uncles. So my FH reminds me that there is nothing to worry about when my whole fam will be there. I would keep the subject open with him bc I know my FH has told me of several friends that told their future wife they were not having strippers but ended up at a strip club. I at least want to know and have him be honest with me! Some of these women found out later and it was not pretty understandably! Remember that he does love you and is attracted and if he wasn’t he wouldn’t be marrying you!

View Quoted Comment Well said! This tradition of private strippers and strippers needs to end.

Just talk with him and tell him how you feel. The whole tradition needs to end. I as well am NOT okay with it. If a man is loyal throughout the relationahip, why does he need a naked woman grinding on him before he is making one of the biggest commitments of his life? This phase of life should end before they meet women like us.

View Quoted Comment My thought exactly!