Staying apart on for the night before the wedding?

We're having a destination wedding and although I have an extra suite booked for two nights so that the guys can get ready in that on the day of the wedding (hotel wouldn't let me just use the room for the day so have to spend two nights worth of $$ on it *eyeroll*) we will be spending the night before together.

I would have way too much anxiety sleeping apart before such a big day. I also think its special to be together that morning even if it is just for coffee or breakfast or a pep talk. i've had friends who planned to spend the night before apart and it was a bit overwhelming for them.

We're having a destination wedding and although I have an extra suite booked for two nights so that the guys can get ready in that on the day of the wedding (hotel wouldn't let me just use the room for the day so have to spend two nights worth of $$ on it *eyeroll*) we will be spending the night before together.

I would have way too much anxiety sleeping apart before such a big day. I also think its special to be together that morning even if it is just for coffee or breakfast or a pep talk. i've had friends who planned to spend the night before apart and it was a bit overwhelming for them.

My FH and I have been together for 6 and a half years, own a home together, etc., so we so far have not really done anything in a 'traditional' sense haha. I always dreamed about doing the traditional stuff like no first looks and sleeping separately the night before, but everything has honestly come down to logistics. For example, we are doing first looks because of how we need to schedule photography around lighting. We have not made an 'official' decision about sleeping apart, but I think I would like to; and, we have many friends staying at the same hotel, so I think what we might do is just have him stay with a friend because many likely will have an extra bed. We'll see though, my friend changed her mind literally the night of and I can see myself doing that too lol. All of this being said, though, that if we actually had to pay for an extra room, I doubt we would, just because for us I don't think it's a 'must' on our list.

Happy planning :-)

We have been living together for 6 years, but we are doing the night before apart, because I live so far away from my parents, I usually get to see them only once a year. So I thought will be nice to spend the night before with them and watch their wedding video. My sister will be spending the night at my parents too, so I think it will be like the old days.

We will stay the night together - he will have to kick rocks as the bridal party gets ready; however, my resort has a place for the girls to get ready as to not incur additional cost. The room is already $500 a night.

We stayed together! i didn't really care for the superstition and just wanted to stay with him

My hubby and I rented a huge house near the venue which was about 2 hours from where we live and we hosted our out of country/ state guests which consisted of his grandparents, parents and sister and my aunt, mom, sister and 2 cousins. We all got to relax and get to know each other well, we hung out and ordered food. my husband I stayed together that night, woke up had breakfast with our families and went our own ways. I went to the venue with my half while he stayed at the house with his. We did this because #1 we were leaving to our honeymoon two days after our wedding very early in the morning so we wanted to spend time with these close family members of ours that had traveled to come see our wedding. Our wedding was Sunday, we got the house Saturday through Tuesday and left to our honeymoon Tuesday morning. When we returned our families had gone back home so had we not done this we would not have really been together.

Yes this means that our wedding night we had a full house but we had partied so much at the wedding that we were fine with it. We had already been living together for about 2 years so when we actual got to our honeymoon we did it big as we were alone as a newly married couple.