I'm dreading- I mean DREADING with knots in my stomach about the bachelor party . Honestly - I have even since before we got engaged. My fiancé truthfully isn't really into strip clubs . He's gone when he was single years ago , and said they're usually dirty - he doesn't ever get turned on, and it's a giant waste of money. He's told the guys he doesn't care to go BUT also said he doesn't care not to go- he doesn't think this is that big of a deal cos it's "entertainment" and he wouldn't care if I went to one male or female. He is leaning towards not going anyways cos he knows how miserable it'll make me but he honestly writes it off as "entertainment like going to a movie" oh really? Didn't know naked gals sat on your lap and you touched their breasts at the movies hmmm? He's so aloof about it, and aloof about not even going but I'm sure his guys will "make him" and I'm sure there won't be much of a fight to put up. Just wondering how other girls deal with it - it's one day but still..