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Lynnie
WeddingWire Administrator October 2016

Registry - Necessary or Not?

Lynnie, on January 14, 2020 at 11:05 AM

Posted in Registry 72

Let's talk about gifts, baby! 🎁 Do you think wedding registries are a necessary tool to help your guests browse your favorite finds and most needed items? Or would you rather skip the registry and hope your guests realize to gift you cash 💰, while running the risk of receiving some odd and...

Let's talk about gifts, baby! 🎁 Do you think wedding registries are a necessary tool to help your guests browse your favorite finds and most needed items? Or would you rather skip the registry and hope your guests realize to gift you cash 💰, while running the risk of receiving some odd and non-requested items?


What's your take? Is a wedding registry necessary or not??


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72 Comments

  • Catherine
    VIP November 2019
    Catherine ·
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    We didn't have one. i don't feel its necessary. if you both are moving in to a new place and don't have things of your own then it would be useful.

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  • Ema
    Dedicated April 2022
    Ema ·
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    If you already have your own place with your own stuff, not necessary. But if you both still live at home and will be getting your own place together for the wedding, absolutely necessary
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  • Dulcena
    Savvy September 2021
    Dulcena ·
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    For my first wedding I think a registry was a good thing to do. Couples starting out usually need things to start their new lives together. This is my 2nd wedding and I'm much older now and we have everything we need so we will not be registering. We will be asking for a money donation for the honeymoon spending money though!!

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  • A
    Devoted July 2020
    Ali ·
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    Oh my gosh no! Not for us anyway! We have lived together for like 7 years now and we have all the things so no registry for us
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  • Stephanie
    Dedicated March 2020
    Stephanie ·
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    Definitely!!!!

    helps!! I'm sorry but this is like a Christmas list of what you want from Santa!! I've done it and excited about it.

    Just make sure people know it exists!


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  • Tracie
    Dedicated April 2021
    Tracie ·
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    Yes? Half of our guests are coming from overseas (we live in South Africa but plan to move back to the states in the next two years or so). I think we'll do a honeymoon fund, and maybe ask for gift cards from a few different preferred websites since we'll be starting from scratch when we move.
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  • Tracie
    Dedicated April 2021
    Tracie ·
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    Should add though, that we don't expect much in the way of gifts because everyone will be traveling for the wedding
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  • Jamie
    Expert May 2020
    Jamie ·
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    I think registry are a great way to guide people to what you want.. so you don't end up with a bunch of stuff you have to return. We made a small registry for that reason, but are mostly hoping for cash to go towards our honeymoon.

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  • K
    Savvy April 2020
    Kristie ·
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    I won’t do one bc we have everything!
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  • Jennifer
    Super October 2020
    Jennifer ·
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    At least a small registry is needed. Some guests do not feel comfortable gifting cash, in which case they would gift something random to the couple if there is no registry.

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  • Traci
    Devoted October 2021
    Traci ·
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    Yes! I feel its easier so the guests csn know what we need and who bought what. Its easier so we dont recieve 3 blenders loltenor.gif

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  • Aimee
    Super July 2021
    Aimee ·
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    Not necessary, most couples have common appliances etc so it is better to usually give cash
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  • Mandi
    Master October 2020
    Mandi ·
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    I just want a second set of sheets. And you might as well know what color of gray I want them in.


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  • I
    Expert August 2021
    Ingrid ·
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    Not necessary, I would like to see registries go away in general. Let's be honest.. . .most want cash to be able to use how they see fit.

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  • Kim
    Savvy June 2021
    Kim ·
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    It’s necessary if you have a wishlist of something other than money. My fiancé and I have been living together for 2 years and pretty much have everything we want or need. We’ll just take the money instead 😊
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  • Tamera
    Expert May 2020
    Tamera ·
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    Definitely necessary, even if you want to ask for cash. Many people want to give a gift, even if it is something small to go with the cash. I think it is helpful for guests and also a chance for you to get things that you may not have bought for yourself yet.

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  • Breanna
    Devoted September 2020
    Breanna ·
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    Although it can be fun, I don't think they're necessary. I think we would prefer cash because we already have everything we need. We will most likely still do one with a few items for those who prefer to buy gifts instead.
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  • Emma Cassano
    Savvy February 2025
    Emma Cassano ·
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    Absolutely necessary. It helps to make sure you don't get the same gift twice from anyone attending. And it helps guests to know what the couple needs. Unless you go with what another bride mentioned with the knot cash fund registry for Honeymoon, Date night, and Home improvement
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  • Nicole
    Dedicated June 2020
    Nicole ·
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    Necessary ! I'm using the opportunity to update all of my old kitchen gadgets. Smiley xd I put my registry link on my bridal shower invites as well as my wedding invites!!

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  • Alisa
    Savvy July 2020
    Alisa ·
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    I was not going to have a registry. We already live together and will probably move so I don't want to collect too much extra stuff. I am also not having a bridal shower. However, I do think some people like giving gifts and having a registry just gives them an idea of things you like/need and what is your style. I was thinking of suggesting things like subscription to the symphony, tickets to the movie theater, gift certificate to our favorite restaurant.

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