I see people posting all the time about "Do what you want, it's your day!" Well I am here to tell you that it is NOT your day! First off, you are getting married to someone. So there is at least one other person who is involved (and they are kind of important...or should be). Second, the day you invite/include one other person to/in your wedding and reception it no longer becomes "your day." You now have to think about these guests and their wants and needs.
No, you can't invite someone to the wedding or to be in the wedding and then boot them. That is rude and tacky and it makes people not like you. They WILL talk about you to others and then others will know you were a crappy person during your wedding.
No, you can not get mad because for a year people don't abandon their lives in honor of your wedding planning. That is just dumb to even expect that.
Your bridal party is not there to be your glitter covered slaves! They have lives outside of your wedding and just because
