Plus ones

You are not wrong at all! This person should not be asking you to expand your reception for them, especially for their friend that I assume you don’t know since they were not already invited! It’s completely fine to say no to this and you should not feel like you are in the wrong.

View Quoted Comment Here is the crazy part. I have met the person she asked to bring as her plus two and...she knows I can not stand her. I got the worst vibes from that girl and now she wants to bring her as well.

Definitely not taking it the wrong way!! It’s your wedding and you invited the people you did for a reason! Do not feel bad for saying no, especially if you do not like the second plus one.

While I'm very chill about plus ones, there's no such thing as a plus two.

View Quoted Comment That’s even more crazy! It may feel awkward to refuse but I would never let someone you dislike come to the wedding! It should be the best day!

That’s just crazy haha.

View Quoted Comment Right? I honestly never knew someone would have the balls

View Quoted Comment That’s what I’m saying...plus two? What’s next?

View Quoted Comment What was your response?!

View Quoted Comment I'm super open minded and I have some poly friends. But even they would only bring one. And they're literally in a relationship with multiple people.

View Quoted Comment Thank you, thank you, thank you. This is what I need to hear. I’m honestly shocked.

View Quoted Comment I told her no, that we have a max number of people that can attend and we invited that exact number. No room to accidentally go over. 🤷🏽‍♀️ Best I could come up with without flipping a table.

View Quoted Comment Haha nice job standing your ground!

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Unfortunately I don’t have a money tree so...there was no way that conversation was going to go the way she was hoping

In my opinion, it’s definitely rude. Weddings are expensive and it’s not your responsibility to have everyone all of your guests want there. Just say that it is only plus one and there’s no other spots available.

You would not be wrong if you say no.. her plus 1 is her mom

It was inappropriate for her to ask. Just kindly let her know that unfortunately your guest list has already exceeded it limit.

Wow, that I’d entitlement if I ever heard it! Good for you for saying no! That is ridiculous.

Next time send this hahaha

You're totally in the right to be annoyed. I've heard it happens all the time but there's no reason that should happen unless the invite wasn't 100% clear. That's rude. Not only to ask for 1 but for 2?!? That's bold.