Please keep me/and my family in your prayers................

Your human Shauna...every1 goes through lifes trials and tribulations... My heart goes out to you about not having nobody to talk to...it's really not healthy to hold stuff in, you could driver yourself crazy. I will most def be praying for you. Put your Faith to the test...it's easy to trust and believe when things are looking good but what about those hard times? God is faithful...just put it in his hands...all things aren't good....but work together for good for those who love the Lord.

Oh I'm sorry big sis!!! *HUGS* We all go through that little rough patch, its totally normal, even for us "strong ones" I def encourage you to talk to someone rather than you keep it to yourself.

If you can't talk to FH, then you can you talk to?

Thanks, Yes, Faith, I know I need to pray myself! I know our God is faithul and I know I have to Trust him completely! I just want things to be right!

@ Lil Sis, thanks, my point exactly, I'm working on talking to FH, maybe after counseling he will be more open to seeing how part of growing is also in communication skills. That's exaclty what's important is having that partner you can talk to in good and bad times w/out feeling on eggshells. ya know.

Thats right just keep trying...I'm working on that my damn self.....lol

Yeah that communication thing ha... i get so frustrated sometimes... id bet ne amount of money we speak two diff languages

Yes we do @ times. Boy you know some of us can write a book! for real!

Girl....waitin to be discovered! lol

I completely understand you. My FH can be that way at times too. I am not the hold it in type, but I have learned that changing my tone and delivery go a long way when it comes to thise matters. Its hard for mine to see my side especially when he feels strongly about whatever it is. The smallest things turn into big ordeals! Keep your head up and you faith strong. Things will work out fine, and I will keep my prayer line open for ya--smile

Thank you so much Jeanene!

You can talk to us for sure. Holding things in isn't healthy. You mentioned that your DS is getting counseling, would couples counseling help?

Let it out. Like @Funbride T says it isn't healthy holding it in. Keep your head up and try to talk to FS. Sending positive vibes your way.

Shauna, I hear you. I'm always the strong one in my inner circle and sometimes it's just so frustrating when you look around and find that you yourself don't have that strong person to lean on. I will def pray for you. Keep ya head up girl. Just remember that God never gives us anything that we can't handle. You'll be alright. I'm always here for you if you need someone to talk to.

I am the strong one too. Well, my BFF and I are equally strong, but she has been my rock and my DH is there when I need him. You can talk to us anytime, we're here to listen and help. So, if you need to, let it rip!

Thanks ladies:

@Funbride, no we will go to premarital counseling soon.

Yes, Vanilla it can be frustrating, but thanks for lending an ear!

@FMS, that's great that you DH &BFF are there for you! I know in the end all will be well, but right now just going through the frustrations of the moment!

We are here for you Shauna B.!!! You can always talk to us