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Unsure how to handle my jealous maid of honour
Michelle, on July 31, 2022 at 12:11 PM

Hi all, I’d really appreciate some words of advice. I’m getting married in a few weeks and my maid of honour is a close friend of about 20 years (since we were teenagers). She’s never been the jealous...

Mrs.evans, Aug 2, 2022 17 1,217
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Trying to schedule a makeup trial. Should i send a follow up email?
Sarah, on August 2, 2022 at 9:28 AM

Hello lovely people! When I booked my makeup artist a year ago she said she would reach out about 2 months before my wedding to schedule a trial for about a month before. I hadn't heard anything and I...

Orianna, Aug 2, 2022 4 697
Stephanie
Do you Include Wedding Planner at Tasting?
Stephanie, on August 1, 2022 at 7:30 PM

Hi everyone! My fiancé and I have our tasting scheduled for later this month with our venue. Is it expected that we include our wedding planner at our tasting? If so, what are the reasons for having...

Michelle, Aug 2, 2022 4 962 1
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Destination weddi bc
Jessica, on August 2, 2022 at 6:47 AM

How long in advance would you send save the dates for a destination wedding ? We are thinking about doing aruba and traveling there from New Jersey! We do have a date of October 26 2024 picked out!

Julia, Aug 2, 2022 8 515
Ashley
Dress shopping?
Ashley, on July 27, 2022 at 1:56 PM

So I really have no idea what type of dress I want. Maybe some but I flip flop a lot. I really want to try to go to a shop or two myself just to get an idea of what I like and don’t like and then set...

Ashley, Aug 2, 2022 8 527 4
Kate
May Friday the 13th Wedding, good idea or terrible?
Kate, on July 21, 2021 at 9:01 PM

So we live in Minnesota and we have found a reception like, problem is our first choice date is taken which was May 20th 2022. So our options are May 6th, 13th, or 27th. The 27th is Memorial Day...

Tammy, Aug 1, 2022 20 5,258
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Has anyone used bus.com for transportation?
Angela, on August 1, 2022 at 10:05 PM

We're trying to figure out transportation for our wedding and I was wondering if anyone has ever used bus.com? They gave us the lowest quote (most places were quoting ~$4k and they quoted be...

Angela, Aug 1, 2022 562 1
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Guest Count at Home Event - in-laws overlooking safety?
Harriet, on August 1, 2022 at 12:03 AM

Help! Indian-western fusion wedding in May 2023 - Indian in-laws want to host a pre-wedding party at home, the night before the ceremony which is also at home. Our wedding planner has said we could...

Jm Sunshine, Aug 1, 2022 2 638
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Am i being too picky with the wedding photography?
A, on May 22, 2018 at 11:08 PM

Hi ladies! So I had finally started to relax about the wedding bc most things are booked...when something happened. We booked our photographer sometime last month and took engagement photos this past...

Valerie, Aug 1, 2022 20 1,845
Sarah
rsvp
Sarah, on July 29, 2022 at 8:38 AM

So I sent out about 50 wedding invitations… in total are guest list is about 105 people … I’ve only got RSVPs from 9 households and my deadline is August 6th 😳 Maybe just waiting last minute to RSVP...

Michelle, Aug 1, 2022 11 534 2
Traci
Bridesmaids gifts
Traci, on July 31, 2022 at 8:14 AM

I have been thinking and looking for Bm's gifts. I found a site. (Prettyrobes.com) found some robes at great prices I had to get a total of 8 personalized robes, with slippers. What are some other...

Mrs.evans, Aug 1, 2022 23 726 5
Sarah
Tips ?!
Sarah, on July 30, 2022 at 9:42 AM

Do we tip the MUA/Hair stylist, photographer, DJ etc? And if so how much ?

Bailey, Aug 1, 2022 6 106 4
Desirae
When to send out wedding invitations
Desirae, on July 31, 2022 at 8:04 PM

Hi everyone! I have a question. I am getting married Nov 5, 2022. When is it appropriate to send out the invitations and to ask rsvp date.

Desirae, Aug 1, 2022 4 264 4
Alison
Holiday Weekends
Alison, on July 1, 2022 at 11:40 AM

Is it a bad idea to have a reception on Labor Day weekend? We are eloping but want to have reception afterwards and Labor Day is the only time until October my parents can be there. Thanks for your...

Felisa, Aug 1, 2022 34 727 3
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Venues
Cierra, on July 28, 2022 at 1:45 PM

I am starting planning for my wedding. Me and my partner don't have many friends or family so our wedding would be at most 20 people so a very small wedding. Would it be wrong of me to just book a...

Michelle, Jul 31, 2022 11 752 4
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Is a backyard wedding really cheaper as people think it is?
Alivia, on July 29, 2022 at 6:49 PM

So my fiancé thinks that we should have the wedding in the backyard my thing is I don’t really think that that’s necessarily cheaper in anyway so if I’m going to put out something that much I’d rather...

Cece, Jul 31, 2022 12 3,652
Kay
Planning
Kay, on July 29, 2022 at 1:28 AM

Where would you start with planning a wedding ? Should I do the harder planning first ? Like the venue, cake, guest list. What would be the best way to not get overwhelmed and stressed out. We haven’t...

Alisha, Jul 31, 2022 15 301 5
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Probably no bridal shower
Michelle, on June 15, 2022 at 9:25 PM

I am getting married September 4, 2022 and have been planning my wedding over the past year. My sister told me last week that she is pregnant and getting married two weeks before. Since she is my maid...

Ana, Jul 30, 2022 6 507
S Mau
Return envelopes
S Mau, on July 21, 2022 at 2:41 AM

Are we stamping the rsvp envelops or…? Just sending them in as is ?

Alisha, Jul 30, 2022 12 467 4
Natalie
David's Bridal ruined my wedding dress in alteratons
Natalie, on August 19, 2019 at 9:48 AM

I normally wouldn't go so far as to spread the word, but after my recent experience I want to warn people who have found their perfect dress. I bought a dress, and I loved it. I needed some things...

Ashley, Jul 30, 2022 22 2,949
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