Only three days left...

I don't see anything wrong with prenups. But that's something that should have been done a while ago. Definitely sit down with him tonight and talk about everything. Good luck!

I dunno either. But wish me luck y'all.

Listen to your heart and your head. Hopefully the talk tonight will give you better insight to your next moves. Best of luck to you.

My sister wanted to cancel her wedding last year and it was just couple days before the wedding. Unfortunately everyone told her it was just cold feet, and she went ahead and got married anyway. A year later, they are divorced. Listen to you head! It's better to cancel the wedding now and then work it out and get married when you are 100% sure. Instead of regretting it and think you should've listened to yourself when you are in doubt.. Good luck to you!

Honestly I think the best you can do today is take a day off. Do you live with him? If so, would you feel comfortable staying with a friend or relative? Just take the evening to yourself, relax and think. It will help you focus.

In terms of being "meant to be" to the eyes of God, also think that one thing is to be meant to be, and a completely separate one to make your relationship work. Even if the concept of soulmates/predestined to be is true, it takes a lifetime to get to know someone, to get used to who they are, and it's a daily task to create a relationship. Having some problems right now doesn't mean you're not meant to be, but being unwilling to meet halfway and work together to solve them, that's definitely a red flag.

We do live together. And we just moved to the city we live at now. I don't have any family near me, my family is back in Chattanooga, which is an hour and a half away. Talking will definitely resolve some issues.

Best of luck on your conversation tonight. I hope it can be face to face with no distractions. Can your children visit a friend so you can talk?

My kids will be gone to VBS with our neighbors.

I'm sorry you're so close and feeling this way. Pray and believe that you will get your answer. I hope it all works out for your good!

I hope you were able to discuss what you're feeling. Calling a wedding off b/c of planning and stress is not the same as calling it off b/c of your FH may not be the right person. I hope you are able to separate the two and find resolution.

I hope you check in and let us know that you are ok and had a good conversation last night. Angel is right - separating the two things is important. Good thoughts going your way.

Hey Kelli, she did. It went awesome. I'll try to find the link.

ETA - https://www.weddingwire.com/wedding-forums/update-to-my-post-last-night-days-left/9d4b6a781ddb754b.html