If I had to choose one of the extremes, I'd go with no wedding party. Even though my ladies are awesome, and there has been NO drama, I feel crowded with just 3 of them! Any more than that, and I might have to run away from home! lol
I would rather have no wedding party. It seems like the more people in the wedding, the more drama there seems to be. I already had to change MOH's due to the first one being all about her with MY wedding.