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LolliPOP
Super May 2017

No One Showed Up To The Bridal Shower!!

LolliPOP, on February 15, 2017 at 7:32 AM

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I'm going to call the former friend 'Daisy' so you can keep up. Me and Daisy have been friends for 6 years. She recently reunited with a previous lover and they started dating. She randomly announced that they were getting married only after dating for literally 6 weeks. She asked me to be her maid...

I'm going to call the former friend 'Daisy' so you can keep up. Me and Daisy have been friends for 6 years. She recently reunited with a previous lover and they started dating. She randomly announced that they were getting married only after dating for literally 6 weeks. She asked me to be her maid of honor. I gladly accepted the honor and because they planned to get married in December (she announced it in August) I immediately started planning her Bridal shower! Her guest list went from 20 to 85 people. I ordered a catering company, tables and chairs rental, paid for floral arrangements for the centerpieces, hired a photographer and bought all the champagne and decoration. In October she called me asking if I could pick her up she was stranded. I went to get her and while waiting at the light, I saw a man in a suit and a woman in a long flowy white gown crossing the street. They went to the courthouse to get married! So they get in the car, continued in comment section

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  • kimbo
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    kimbo ·
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    What a crappy person! How could she think it's ok to do something like that??

    Call me petty but I'd send anonymous letters to her friends and family letting them all know she's already married. (probably not, but that's what I'd want to do!!)

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  • LolliPOP
    Super May 2017
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    @BeMyGuest no I still haven't talked to her. I can't find her! Her grandmother said she moved and she didn't know the address. Her brother never opens the door for me when I go. FH said fuck it! Just leave it alone. So I did.

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  • Bemyguest
    Master April 2017
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    @Lolli wow. I'm so sorry. You may be right, just leave it go! What a mess!

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  • RaeGin
    Master September 2017
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    I'd be tempted to let her guests know that she's already married...

    ETA: Tempted, but I probably wouldn't have the balls to do it

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  • GymRat
    Master May 2017
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    She's a cunt, and I would take her to small claims court to get your money back. That is if you could find her....

    ETA: not sure if you have a case, but that's the first thought that came to mind.

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  • FutureMrsBuchanan
    VIP May 2017
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    I'd find Daisy's ungrateful ass real quick and I probably shouldn't even type out the rest on this forum!

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  • GymRat
    Master May 2017
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    Well I'll take one for the team, and spread that bitch's business far and wide. Fuck her.

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  • Jennifer
    Expert October 2017
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    I don't even have any words! I'm so sorry you had to find out this way what a bitch your friend was.

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  • melanie
    Master August 2017
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    What a complete asshole she is!!!!!

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  • MTMA9917
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    I'm with gym. I'm a petty bitch. Id spread the news far and wide...

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  • Bee
    Master April 2017
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    Wow. Yea I definitely would be sending her the bill and/or taking her to court. There are fairly easy ways law enforcement can find her.

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  • FME
    Master March 2018
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    I'd be super petty and send out wedding announcements with the date she was married to all her friends and family

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  • Bemyguest
    Master April 2017
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    @gym i do think she has a case.

    OP can you get a screenshot of her FB post? That'd solidify your case!

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  • LolliPOP
    Super May 2017
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    My best friend (Jessica) said take her to court as well. I honestly want to find her and just beat her ass!!!!

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  • K.M.
    Master September 2018
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    I second looking into small claims court. You may have a case. But if you go that route than don't post anything to social media. If you doubt you see any of that money from her, I would post this all of over social media.

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  • The Trap Selena
    Master March 2016
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    I'm with @Gymrat.

    "Daisy cancelled her bridal shower because she's already married! Surprise!"

    ETA: If you're seriously considering taking her to court, definitely don't post it on social media. Talk to a lawyer.

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  • LolliPOP
    Super May 2017
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    Jessica has the screenshot in her phone. How do I go about it? I have all the contracts and receipts still.

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  • A&L
    Master April 2017
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    I would try court. In the meanwhile, quietly try to figure out at least where she works. She can be served there

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  • Bemyguest
    Master April 2017
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    No social media. Contact a lawyer!

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  • MTMA9917
    VIP September 2017
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    I'm still voting for kicking her ass.

    But again, I'm a petty Betty and I don't recommend that.

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