May wedding with Coronavirus

Hey y’all our wedding is May 20th 2020. I’m worried about having to postpone the wedding it’s been so stressful and need some advice because most of our friends and family on both sides are coming from ny which it’s a lot worse up there right now like the state is going on lock down this Sunday! Our issue is even if things are cleared down hear and the venue is still open is if anyone would be able to make it we put way too much money into this and we’re paying it all ourselves. I don’t know weather we should just postpone because of all this and won’t know about ny traveling wise until literally a month from Sunday >.< I’m freaking out