Marriage

The reason I replied that way is bc first of all I haven't seen you on here before ( I assume your new so welcome), I am typically NOT the type to post a negative comment & I was genuinely wondering why you would post such a topic in a wedding forum full of brides to be? Sometimes random people with nothing better to do hop on these forums, create a stupid topic and leave. Now that I know other wise, I apologize but next time just try and elaborate a bit more when you start a topic to avoid any miscommunication.

I think it is overrated.

Wait. Am I drunk? I might actually just be looped by mixing Vicodin with Flintstones vitamins, then spinning in circles while singing Cantonese love songs to myself because my invisible elf companions have been selling off my jewelry again.

Thanx Ginny S

@Shannon LOL If I hadn't finished my coffee I'd spew! If that's your drunk--I wanna hang out with you!

Who is miss communication and why do I want to avoid her?

Undraya, were you asking this question because some people have different ideas of marriage?? Like some just think that when you get to a certain again this is what you should do. Some might have been dreaming about it all their lives. Some might be married and their thoughts before are not their thoughts now. Is that what you were getting at??

Oh dear an open ended question with little structure ; I think many people's heads exploded here Undraya..lol

I think the OP was just trying to start a fun thread to see what people came up with and many assumed it was an agree/disagree thing or a troll. :shrug:

I think that some people take marriage for granted. Some people get so wrapped up in the wedding part that they forget what marriage is truly about.

Marriage sucks. Don't do it. Seriously. The only reason I'm getting married is because I want presents and I look incredible in white. I fully intend to be divorced by this time next year. ;-)

Open ended with little structure...it's like the ending of the Sopranos, my college years, and a Montessori education, all in one!

I'm on my second, I love it! Can't wait for my 3rd or 4th, the older the guests the better the gifts! (more disposable income)

Not always true, Sharon.. my grandpa gave me a 5 and called it a day. He's always been pretty cheap though LOL

Why did people feel the need to attack Undraya just because they might not have understood her question? I don't see the sense...

Nobody's attacking, we're all just having a Sunday morning giggle. It's a nice escape from my usual morning schedule of grooming my pet komodo dragon and screaming at the help.

Aaahhhh, well she seems to be new so you guys might want to tell her that this is the initiation phase lol

Attacking.....I don't think so. If you can't handle responses, criticism, judgements, jerks, nice comments, etc....don't post threads. You are going to get comments from many different people on here. Not everyone always has something nice to say. I don't have mean comments but when I see some post like that, I am sorry but I just thought it to be a dumb question. "What do you think about marriage"? You should have elaborated more. You can edit your posts you know. Maybe a better question could have said "what made you decide to marry your DH or FH?"

Sorry but if you can't handle peoples responses be it nice or terrible, you shouldn't post or better yet, delete your account.

This isn't a matter of not understanding a question. What do we think about marriage, obviously we have good thoughts about it or we wouldn't do it. If we had bad thoughts about it why would we plan a wedding, be on a wedding planning website, or consider getting married.

Yeah you can say all of that...but one of the vow of conduct in WW that posted over on the right is.."If you don't like it, don't respond to it." and another is "Choose your words wisely." There's a time and place for everything. According to the rules of this forum, this isn't the place for that.

What you said might apply if you were having to defend yourself or she asked a question about attire or decor but she never said anything to anyone directly.

She didn't insult anyone or anything like that. There's no need just to go off on a total stranger because you think her question is not up to your standards. If you really want to delve deeper into what she's thinking then ask more questions so you can formulate your answer. If you don't care then move on to the next post. To me, It's a little childish to start bashing someone because they asked a question.

Yeah, pretty sure nobody said anything bad in here.

I think that love and marriage go together like a horse and carriage.