Maid of Honor Nightmare!! Help! Bridal Shower planning gone so wrong!

Rachel D. I am happy with the small bit of constructive criticism I received. And I used it, I am happy to 'invite people to weigh in' bc I can take responsibility for my actions right or wrong. I wanted to know what was objectively 'right' and I got many responses, mostly rude, but still. I just wanted objective advice with what to do.

I'm sorry, I understand where you are coming from now. You are very right. Health is really the only thing that matters in the end.

I did not see your 2:12am reply.

Best of luck to you. I hope everything goes well. There's some truly mean people on WW, and I mean that. There's ways to give criticism without being abrasive or disrespectful, and I can't understand why people sully that line. Don't be discouraged, just take the good criticism and move forward. I'm sure it will all work out for you..

C & C -- thanks for that. I just don't want you to regret anything, young lady, because regrets just suck. Life changes in a moment. You run in the house with a grocery bag in your hands to answer the phone, and that call, something that doesn't even sound like English, changes everything. I wasn't trying to guilt you -- I just want you to know that one day, you may think all of this drama was nothing more than drama...and seriously, it is. That's all. I truly wish you. and every other man and woman in this community, the best that life can offer. Hold fast to her, C&;C -- she's irreplaceable (and I'm convinced you already know that). Have a fabulous wedding.

@Ashley G. You're amazing!! Thank you! This was my first post, and man I learned a lot, lol.

It seems like it will work out, i appreciate your encouragement.

@Rachel D. Thank you, I really appreciate your sentiments.

You have a very wise perspective, I'm glad you shared your wisdom with me. I'm going to remember your words and take them to heart. Thank you for your knowledge and insight. And well wedding wishes! I wish all the best wedding endeavors for you!

View Quoted Comment I think the bride knows that she isn’t owed a shower, but when someone says they are planning one for you, then you expect them to follow through. Otherwise, as she said, someone else would have done it. Confronting someone when they are supposed to plan your bridal shower (supposed to, because they said they would) I believe is 100% okay. The bride is not in the wrong here.