I am trying the mantra about how great it will be that I will married after it's all over but am also just so mad about the inconsiderate ways our friends have been behaving. 2 friends casually told us they were bringing dates this week! We have assigned tables, place cards are printed, seating chart at the caterers and even though it's buffet, we have a catering count. Someone please tell me how people still miss this HUGE piece of wedding etiquette? Did they think that magically there would be chairs for these dates? What are they thinking, honestly I'd like to know.
Obviously telling them no is a good option but then I still feel bad so it's just as much work. Also, anyone else out there a little annoyed that people think weddings just happen magically and are a little resentful about the fact that you worked your ass off to make this happen only to have people act like you didn't? Ugh. I'm sure it will work out but right now I just want it to be over.
