Keep or Cancel: Cake Smash?

Cancel, as others have said it’s tacky and disrespectful but even more than that it’s just like why? It’s really not cute at all.

Cancel. What’s the point really? Get your newly minted spouse all messy? No, just no.

CANCEL.
I need every morsel in my mouth to enjoy. Not on our face, gown/tux, the floor, nope.

How did this “tradition” even start? Maybe the couple was drunk and their aim was off🤷🏾‍♀️.

Keep! I never wear makeup so I'm all for getting smashed in the face with cake

No thanks.

Cancel without hesitation. I think it's so disrespectful to smash food in each others faces and I do not want my expensive makeup being ruined. I've also never been to a wedding where they did the cake smash, so it would be very out of the norm for me to witness.

Cancel! I find it rude, disrespectful and not funny at all.

However, with that being said, in my first marriage to my late husband. We did not do it but we keep the top tier of cake in the freezer like many people do. I remember on our one year anniversary after the cake had defrosted he chased me down the hall with it and gave me a good smash in the face. It was perfect because we were in the privacy of our own home and I was able to take a shower lol.

CANCEL. I hate that! I'm grateful my fiancee hates it too. You spend all that money on the dress and renting a tux and you want to mess them up with cake and frosting? no thank you.

Cancel, spend hundreds on makeup then smear frosting all over, no thanks

With me paying for my makeup to be done and dress is expensive etc i will be mad if he does plus i cant to him bc his suit cant smash it bc if he gets stain then he loses his tux deposit fee in case of stains etc and they can charge.extra to have it cleaned ...so im opting to do nice cake feeding to each other vs smash !

Cancel, only because I am such a klutz and I know I will get it over everything. I find it cute as long as it's done tastefully. (No pun intended, LOL)

Cancel, not after the good morning day I’ll be spending on my hair, makeup, and dress.

I mean Money, not morning day

Cancel!! I really wanted to do it to FH, but I know he'd do it back to me. I don't want my makeup messed up!

Cancel. That would just make me mad!

Cancel. Too messy & I've spent too much on the outfits & my makeup haha

CANCEL!! I’m doing my own hair and makeup. The time I’ve spent doing it myself to have it ruin by cake!! Oh don’t even get me started on the possibility of having cake on my dress!!!

Cancel, there's no way I'm spending this kinda $ on my look to get cake all over me.

Yeah, hard cancel. No way we'd do this.

Cancel.. not even sure who thought that would be a good idea in the first place. If I get cake on my face, somebody will be getting a slap on their face!! But we both agree this tradition is stupid and disrespectful.