Jeans for the groom??

You weren't defending yourself. You:

Told others not to post

Told others how to post (which you have since done again and I flagged)

Participated in name calling

Nobody else has violated CGs except YOU. Yet you seem to think we are the ones who are the problem. Hmmm.

Im not here to make friends i was here to get opinions of other brides who may have something constructive to offer, i dont need to be liked by everyone to validate myself

Amanda it's not a matter of not being liked, its that you need to avoid being offensive to people. There's a difference.

Likewise

Then why ask for an opinion in the first place, Amanda? You obviously cared enough about what the forum users of WW thought to make not one, but TWO posts about your wedding plans.

But why go to such lengths to make yourself unlikeable? Everyone gets feedback they don't like sometimes. Part of being an adult is dealing with it by listening and asking questions politely and then considering what you want to do with that feedback. Name calling and sarcasm just make people write you off as a hopeless cause, which I'm sure you aren't.

Please no jeans. This is your wedding not dress down Friday at work.

It was my first time here i was seeking advise from people who may have a similar situation or who could offer useful advise , which i got ..not to have people go around in circles about petty nonsense

@nancy we nixed the jeans idea and found other options with the help of SOME women on here

Yeah, I feel like this is hopeless.

So instead of ignoring what you felt to be petty nonsense, you felt the most logical step was to tell people who could/couldn't post on your thread and name-calling?

That doesn't make any sense, Amanda.

I never told anyone they can't post lol

I asked why they were posting if it had nothing to do with the topic..and why they were posting if they didn't actually have advise . I wasn't aware that asking questions were a violation

Everyone here is in a similar situation (planning a wedding) and everyone here has offered you advice by weighing in on the question you asked. How a bride treats her bridesmaids is never a petty issue because they are your nearest and dearest. And even if that was "nonsense" it doesn't justify you name calling and being sarcastic when people are just trying to help. It's not a forum that is going to blow rainbows up your skirt. It is a lot of people who, if they see you messing up in a way that effects your guests or wedding party or you, will point that out so you can consider a solution.

And again with the statements. You just don't learn, do you?

...except you did...hence all the flags...hence why a MOD posted that they'd be speaking to you to give you a warning...

...I agree with @Jacks, this is pointless.

This is so tiring.

@Jay: Then she re-asked the same questions that got flagged the first time.

OP, CGs say you can't tell people how to post, not to post, or to leave the post. That includes doing so via implication.

You just keep repeating the same mistakes over and over.

The post was about jeans ....thats it lol i stated several times before i actually took the advise of others with different opinions the clique who keeps going with it never once made any type of comment trying to be helpful in any way

Yyeessss girl! I have the same plan for my groom... dark jeans, tie, white shirt and vest!! We are having a rustic theme!