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I've had a clear vision for our wedding right from the start, and I've stuck to it - true or false?

Lynnie, on August 27, 2019 at 11:40 AM Posted in Planning 0 124
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Did you know exactly how you envisioned your wedding from day one, or has it been a longer process? Have you changed your mind a ton or stuck with a specific style in mind?

"I've had a clear vision for our wedding right from the start, and I've stuck to it" - true or false?


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  • Brianna N
    Super October 2019
    Brianna N ·
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    False! When I started planning I really didn't have a specific vision in mind. I picked a venue, then my colors, then just kind of rolled with it! Smiley smile

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  • Melle
    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    Semi true. There were things I stuck to and others I changed
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  • Kelsey
    VIP September 2020
    Kelsey ·
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    Semi true as well. I had some ideas, but some of those have changed as we started planning.

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  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
    Caytlyn Online ·
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    True-ish. I didn't have a plan for the tiny details, but had a pretty good idea of the vision for the wedding.

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  • Rebecca
    Super January 2020
    Rebecca ·
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    False!!! I always wanted a very rustic wedding, with lots of wood, baby's breath, and have our venue in a barn. Instead, we're doing vintage aviation and getting married in an airplane hangar! I learned REAL quick that barn venues (at least near Orlando, FL) are not cheap!!!

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  • Lauren
    VIP September 2019
    Lauren ·
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    True! I had my colors picked out since before I knew my FH. I have been buying things here and there since I've known that we were going to get married. We booked our banquet hall before we got engaged. We've always talked about our vision for our wedding since we decided we were going to get married in 2012, we didn't get engaged until 2018.

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  • Allie
    Master August 2019
    Allie ·
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    False! I never really had a clear vision of my wedding, but I like how its coming together.

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  • Cristy
    Master May 2021
    Cristy ·
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    True-ish. I always had a vision for my wedding, but didn't have the smaller details nailed down until I actually started planning and booking vendors.

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  • MrsV1027
    Master October 2018
    MrsV1027 ·
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    True! We wanted it simple and fun and we kept it that way

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  • Kellie Martinez
    Super October 2019
    Kellie Martinez ·
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    I knew exactly what I wanted when it came to decor, my colors, hairstyle, theme, etc. but I didn't know what kind of dress I wanted to buy.

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  • Yam
    VIP September 2019
    Yam ·
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    True! I’ve wanted an enchanted forest wedding since I was like 8, thanks to my love of the movie Legend. We haven’t shyed away our theme or changed anything at all.
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  • Amber
    Rockstar February 2020
    Amber ·
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    False, I essentially had no vision whatsoever. Now my vision is modern rustic, which is honestly the last thing I expected myself to pick

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  • Erin
    Rockstar April 2022
    Erin ·
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    False, I started by joking about having a Harry Potter themed wedding, but my FH said no. I went in other directions, and came back to the HP idea. This time my FH agreed xD so we’ve gone full circle and are having a HP themed wedding.
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  • Alyssa
    Devoted October 2019
    Alyssa ·
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    False. When I first got engaged I had no idea what I was doing. I was never that girl who dreamed of her wedding since she was little. I definitely jumped around with things at the beginning.
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  • Denise
    Super September 2019
    Denise ·
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    False. I had no clue what I was doing at the begining and though it's overall been kinda the same, I never really had a clear vision until about 3 months in

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  • Ashley
    Savvy September 2020
    Ashley ·
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    True! Stuck to it for the most part, made it better over time Smiley smile
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  • Mrsbdg
    Champion August 2017
    Mrsbdg ·
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    Hahahaha ohhh my poor fantasy had no concept of budget. I had a vision, alright but my bank account told me I wasn’t allowed.

    When we did come up with a realistic vision then, true, we stuck with it.
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  • Jacquelene
    Dedicated October 2021
    Jacquelene ·
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    False. I knew we were going to have a modern venue with monochromatic colors... nope. Country club romance is happening.
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  • Ashley
    Dedicated May 2020
    Ashley ·
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    False. I didn’t really have an idea, but then I saw my venue and everything fell into place.
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  • Kaylee
    Dedicated September 2020
    Kaylee ·
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    True and false. I had an idea of how I wanted everything to look and the "vibe" that we were going for but I changed my mind about the color 4 times and now the color is finally decided and it is the first color we originally had talked about. So mainly, yes I guess we are sticking to the vision we had! 😄
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