Is it okay to send a wedding gift late?

She may not have noticed, or if she did she shrugged it off. It's sweet of you to want to send something now & I think a hand written note with a gift card would be really nice. I don't think you need details, just say you're not sure what happened but you forgot this a couple weeks ago.

Better late than never!!

Here's what I would do: Send her a gift card with a nice card, then call her and say "oh my gosh I'm such an idiot! I thought I mailed your gift weeks ago but I just found it this morning on my dresser! I am SO sorry!"

HisMrs, that's a PERFECT idea! So sneaky haha :-)

I am sure your cousin would appreciate it like out the window said better late than never

Etiquette states that you can send a gift up to one year after the wedding, or so I've been told by my grandmother.

Hehe. Yes I can be sneaky when I need to. I have actually done this before a time or two Not necessarily proud of it but hey... it is what it is.

Three weeks really isn't that long. I don't think its too late. They might not have even been able to look thru all of their gifts anyway.

I would go with a gift card and definitely let her know you are so sorry for completely forgetting to get her a gift. Better late than never! I think she will appreciate it that you did that.

Like MrsStobe says you have a year after the wedding to receive a gift. We have had a handful of people send us gifts after the fact. No need to acknowledge that it is late!

Late is okay. You don't need to apologize or mention it.

Yes, I agree that you have up to a year to send a gift. Better late than never.

Better late than never, and a gift card sounds perfect.

I once went to a wedding where they took to gift table down so quickly I wasn't able to leave my card (with cash gift) in their card box. I had to travel back home & then mail it. All was fine.

It's considered completely acceptable to give a gift up to a year after the wedding.

My brother-in-law and sister-in-law got married the DAY AFTER my partner and I moved into our first apartment together. Our move was beyond horrific (lasted three days). One gift was entirely lost because of the move, and the other accidentally got packed, and then lost after we unpacked. We were irritated--the wedding date was picked AFTER the happy couple knew what day we were moving, and the wedding was originally supposed to be a picnic type reception that we could attend when we wanted a break from unpacking. When the wedding turned into a more traditional one, they didn't move the date back ... it was a stressful weekend.

We were still geting gifts off the registry 9 months after the wedding. I was thrilled to get them at any time, so I think you're totally fine!