in laws butting their noses into our sex life!!

Ewwwwwwwwwwwwww

why?????????

They are crossing so many boundaries it's ridiculous. It's up to FH to put a stop to it. He's their son.

If they don't want grandchildren, that's their issue, not yours.

OMG! You can't be serious (but I'm afraid you actually are). FH needs to stand up to his parents and let them know that he is a grown adult and will make his own decisions.

You don't need to say anything to his mother, you and FH need to get on the same page about how you deal with his parents. If he's unwilling to end these conversations when they start, then you'll continue having the same problem. A simple "We are handling those issues as we see fit for our lives and there is no need to discuss those details with you" will suffice, and saying that repeatedly (both of you) should help end the conversations period.

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She's just having this talk with him now? dumba$$!@$ss

Honestly? Keep it short and sweet. Tell her that your vagina is none of her business.

Okay, maybe not.

"We would prefer that you keep your opinions on our family planning to yourself. We have discussed it at length, and we're old enough to make our own decisions."

The end.

Then why didn't they neuter him at 6 months like most puppies and kittens?

LOL @ OTW

Ewww!

Haha @ OTW

His dad could have a one time heart to heart with him....

And you and his mom could have a warm conversation over some General Mills Instant Mocha Latte...

All I can say is WOW!! I don't know what I would do in your situation.

Oh God. I would be tempted to get really graphic LOL P in da V.

Lmao @celia comment! This is beyond rude and unacceptable but I agree with most comments here your FH needs to be the one to put his foot down and say that it's is none of their business what goes on in you guy's see life and also whether or not you want children... They lived their lives they need to but off and let their son live his! And who the hell told them it would matter of they don't want grandchildren that's you and FH's choice!

Lol @OTW.. thanks everyone.. yeah its disgusting and man do I feel pissed! I've tried so hard to be close with his family.. I can't believe they're discussing their 33 year old sons bc with his fw?? Wtf. I'm still so dumbfounded. Ugh

And also do they want him to be a fifty year old father?? Wth!!

That is disgusting. He needs to handle that. I would have told her that is none of her mfn business!!!!!!!

Um ew. And hes 33? Crossing wayy to many boundaries. Youre adults not teenagers.

Why would he put up with that? Why would he get angry at you? Did he say why he got mad at you?

My FMIL once told my FH that if we have children it would be the biggest mistakes of our lives so you know what? When the grandchildren come she will have NOTHING to do with them.

It's non of their business, and I would just be so blunt. Tell them you appreciate their concern however it is non of their business and it's certainly not their desicion so you would appreciate it if they could keep their concerns to themselves.

That's really inappropriate, especially at your age. On a side note, if it doesn't stick up for you with his parents on THIS issue, will it change when you're married?

Also my advice is HE needs to talk to HIS parents.

I agree.. he should be the one to talk to them. He wasn't really sure why he was upset? At least he couldn't word it to me. What I think is that he's misplacing his anger to his parents towards me. I have a six year old daughter and I know exactly how much a child costs and how muvh work they take.. I do not appreciate being treated like a teen.

WOW.. that's seriousily disrespectful to you. Your fh needs to man up and tell his parents to go a hike!