I’m about to snap!

View Quoted Comment Like I’ve said, these are all things that we have been trying to work out and are continuing trying to work out even this morning we’ve already tried to call our coordinator about three times. But I will absolutely complain about it while doing so. There’s a whole other mess of crap that got dropped on us and I think it’s really out of touch that you think I should just be OK with all of it

View Quoted Comment Lol as I’ve said, we got this email last evening and we’ve already called our coordinator three times this morning. Yes that is one of the number one questions we are going to ask her amongst many other ideas and things to factor in that we’ve had to scramble with

View Quoted Comment 10-4 .......

View Quoted Comment Sorry I don’t get it. But again whatever that means you’re still out of touch. Thanks for trying

View Quoted Comment Oh I get it haha like 10 four. Yes that makes sense. And yes you were still out of touch. Have a nice day though.

View Quoted Comment 👍🏻
10-4... it means heard and understood

View Quoted Comment You too dear. Good luck.

View Quoted Comment Nobody said you don’t have a right to be upset. In fact I said be upset all you want.


Luckily, you have two whole months for your coordinator to find out how to handle the situation.
Your venue is not the only place to get a rapid test done. While it isn’t as convenient to go elsewhere, it is possible. Again, it is not a personal attack that they simply do not have the ability to provide the tests for you despite having them on site. It is simply a capability issue.
Honestly, it seems the only people you are ok with are the ones supporting you in the victim role. The people offering solutions are the “bad guys”. If that’s what you want then fine, but it won’t help.
We have all made concessions and dealt with curveballs throughout this process. We are trying to support you in the way we know how and, for some of us, that is by offering solutions since that is what is needed in this situation.

View Quoted Comment The people that have been offering solutions have been great on this post! The people that are saying that I’m trying to ‘play the victim’ are the ones that are out of touch. Have a nice day

Literally all I have done is offer solutions. But you can see things how you want 🤷🏻‍♀️ Nobody is out of touch here and I find that disrespectful for you to say. But again, you can see things how you want.


I wish you the best of luck. I hope one of the numerous solutions offered by myself or others works for you.

View Quoted Comment Like I’ve said, when you tell someone that their “playing the victim “. for a situation like this It’s pretty disrespectful and out of touch.

View Quoted Comment They’re ***

View Quoted Comment I mean, you’re the one that called yourself a victim first. All anyone else did is try to help you out of the situation. Not wanting to accept the help is on you.


This is something that thousands of brides are dealing with all over the world. There are thousands of brides who have it even worse!
Knowing and acknowledging that is not out of touch. You don’t know my planning experience. For all you know I could have even tighter restrictions than you. Throwing a temper tantrum doesn’t solve anything.
AGAIN, sorry you are going through this and hopefully one of the NUMEROUS solutions I offered helps.

View Quoted Comment LOL I never said that I was a “victim”. But I can sense your frustration on this and your eagerness to cure Covid! You are a very blessed person and I hope you have a terrific day

View Quoted Comment I’m sorry that I take a disease that has killed family and friends, could potentially kill my FH if he caught it, put my grandmother in a care home, and has it so legally half of my family may not be able to come to my wedding seriously. How fortunate you are to view it as solely an inconvenience.

View Quoted Comment Everyone has their opinions just like you. I’m surprised you’re actually on a wedding forum right now seeing as how you’re so against weddings happening. But to each it’s own and have a terrific day ♥️.

Hi sweetie first off I can't begin to tell you how sorry I am that your going through this, and they shouldn't do that to your guests even if there is a pandemic going, I don't have any words to tell you so I just wanted to reach out and give you an air hug and hopefully your coordinator gets back to you soon

View Quoted Comment Thank you for your support fellow Bride! My fiancé and I just got off the phone with one of our correspondence from the state, and we received an email back from our DJ. Our DJ has been the best vendor we have had and he’s going to help us get through this. He’s going to get us the information to the recently approved companies that will be able to do on site testing for a fee. So at this point we think we’re exploring that route. Thank you for just listening and just understanding in general that this is some thing really hard. I know that all brides are dealing with this right now but the reason why I post on this forum is to just vent my frustrations that way I don’t have to bring all of this craziness to family and friends that frankly I have a lot bigger fish to fry in their lives. Thanks for just being supportive it means more than you know♥️

Wouldn't you want your guests to just get tested a day or two before? I know on-site testing seems convenient but what if someone actually is positive. Then they'll be upset because they have covid and they got ready and went to your wedding just to be sent back home.

View Quoted Comment No because my guests are already making the same arrangements prior at that point. It’s not like they are going to request the day off from work 48 hours before my wedding. guests have already made their arrangements and already RSVPd. Not to mention, even if they take a test two days prior, there’s no guarantee that they won’t catch Covid within those two days. So it’s pretty pointless. Rapid on-site testing is more practical for everyone also.