I need advice. A little backstory. My fiance and I live in Minnesota, he was born and raised here, I was born and raised in California. All of our friends are in MN but we have decided to have a small wedding in CA instead. The original plan was to have just 6 people in the wedding party, my 2 best girlfriends, my fiances 2 groomsmen, and us, then 6 became 8 which was no big deal, until my fiance asked his cousin to be in the wedding leaving me 1 bridesmaid short, which I know is no big deal but I wanted to have an even number so I asked one of my newer friends that I work with because we were close at the time and she said yes. Awesome right? No. Because since then she has constantly asked me what I am going to do to accommodate her since I'm making her go to California. Am I paying for her room, how long are we staying, does she need a car, who's paying for flights....? None of my other bridesmaids expect anything like this from me. I feel like she's making my wedding all about how I can help her and I feel like if she cannot afford to go she should just be honest with me. Am I wrong for feeling this way? What would you do in my situation? Thanks!
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