How do I take back my RSVP? I don't want to go to a Dry wedding!

Bring a flask.

Or 2.

Just call the bride and tell her that something has come up and you are unable to make it.

Lurkers: this is why you should have alcohol.

No...don't!

Attend and report back to us and validate all that we say about dry weddings.

^ Take one for the team lol

You can pre-party and bring a flask. We also want live updates!!

I'm not really a drinker so attending a dry wedding isn't horrible to me so I'd go since i already rsvp'd and it's so close but if you really don't want to I'd think texting would be fine.

Call her up and decline with regret.

It's rude to show up with a flask.

Not to mention, If they had to buy insurance if they were having alcohol.

Boo. I have one of these coming up as well. I RSVPed yes because hubby is IN the wedding.

I would still go because you're right, she probably already paid for you. Just leave after dinner. Two wrongs do not make a right!

That is what people don't get about dry weddings. They are wasting a ton of money on their venue, DJ, and events because everyone leaves early. It may cost more to have alcohol, but at least people will stay and enjoy the other things that have been paid for. SMH..

Ugh awkward! Well it's rude of them to have a gap between ceremony and reception. It's inconsiderate for them not to serve alcohol. I suppose you could justify bailing based on that. At least I could!

Just dont go! If i was the birde I wouldn't want you there if you felt like that anyway. Stay home and drink wine, she'll still have a blast and be married.

I'm also throwing in a vote for live updates! Take a flask, with a bottle to refill it in the parking lot.

I wouldn't just not show up without calling and letting them know you wont be there. That's way worse.

Since she most likely already has her final numbers in I would go and bring your own "refreshments" You can have some in the 1.5 hour wait between ceremony and reception.

Flask. Or a water bottle full of vodka.

The title cracked me up.....ahahahhahaa! I don't even drink, but know about dry parties. Eeeek!

Girl, I'd have some alcohol in my car for the hour and a half "in between" time. Then I'd have dinner at reception and bail.

Seriously, you're so attached to alcohol you cannot get through a social event without it? Your post sounds like being able to drink for free is why you're going, which is seriously uncool. Also uncool: canceling after RSVPing yes. She may already have paid for your seat, food and cake and can't get that money back. So for the sake of a $5 glass of wine you're wasting her $85 dinner? Deeply uncool.

Have a couple before hand. Keep a bottle in car and keep refilling flask. Then tell us how freaking boring it is

I think if you already RSVP'd you need to go, think how you would feel if someone did that to you 2 days before your wedding. Just leave after dinner or after the ceremony

I think you should be going to her wedding to celebrate her marriage and be there for her big day not for free alcohol. Don't go to a wedding if you don't care about the wedding. If your not going to go you should definitely let her know but I think you ultimately should since she probably paid a good bit of money for you to be there - meal, favors, etc.