"Honeymoon jar"

No, no, and no! All of it is super tacky. Don't ask your guests for money at all.

It's not tacky, people do it all the time some label it a honeymoon trip fund. Your guests are either going to be more than happy to chip in to see you have a happy honeymoon or not be able to from buying you a gift already. So either way it's up to you.

Your guests are probably already giving you a gift. There's no reason to ask them to give you more money.

This isn't going to go well. Everyone here is going to tell you that it's super tacky.

It's very tacky... Would you ever do that or something similar at any other big hosted event? Please don't do that!

Just because people do it all the time doesn't make it less tacky. Just means a lot of people have bad etiquette.

I know it's an unpopular opinion, but I don't consider them super tacky. I always thought of it as a place for guests to put the money they were already going to give you, not begging for money. Imo it just sounds cuter to say "Honeymoon Fund!" instead of "Well wishes for the Bride and Groom" or something like that. I've been to a few weddings that have them and never thought of it as tacky. I would put the gift card I got them in it. If you know your guests well, you can guess if they will be turned off by it or not. My wedding is 90% family, the same family that has given me money for every graduation, birthday, and milestone in my life. I just don't see the harm in it personally, but I understand why it sets some people on fire. I wouldn't expect someone who has spent over 10k on their wedding to "ask" for money.

@Kaylin consider that most families cannot afford to go on vacation themselves and you're asking them to fund your lavish honeymoon? That to me is extremely trashy.

Gift grabby. No one has to give you anything for the wedding let alone cash for a vacation.

I don't carry cash ever on me anyways so even if I though it was okay you still wouldn't get anything from me.

^took the words right out of my mouth!

Shelby, that should be a card box. Nothing's wrong with a card box, however what the OP is implying is collecting spare change and dollar bills which is in fact tacky when guests have already traveled, purchased a gift, etc..:

Lol.

Um no. Not a good idea. Just have a small registry and people will bring you cash in their cards

No cutesy sign or thoughtful comment will ever cover the thin patina of tackiness that emanates from this idea. If you need a place for guests to "put the money they were already going to give you" that's what a card box is for or the cute little birdcage card holder is made for.

Sorry, no. A thousand times over. No for both the honeymoon fund and the Happiness & Fortune jar. It rubs people the wrong way, even if guests are family, guaranteed it will be noticed and most likely made mentioned of the next day when your wedding is the topic on everyone's lips. Don't be *that* person.

This is such a good idea! Next time I have friends over for dinner, no only as I going to ask them to pay for their own alcohol, but I'm also going to leave a tip jar in my counter in the kitchen. Thanks for the idea!

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If what I wrote above seems tacky, that's because it is. A Honeyfund registry mentioned on your website and website only is one thing. Actually asking your guests to give you more money at the reception in addition to a gift is incredibly rude. Of course it's "done that way where I'm from" and "everyone in my family has don't it at their wedding" but it doesn't make it tactful or right.

Nope!

It's super tacky. No one requires a honeymoon, and if you take one you pay for it yourself.

You are asking people to give money for a vacation they probably cannot take themselves...

Yeah im not paying for your honeymoon. It is rude and tacky. I can tell you it will leave a negative long lasting memory. I think most of your guests have already given some type of gift.

Please don't do this. It's worse then an online honeyfund to push it in your guests face on the day. Don't do a dollar dance the whole idea makes me think of strippers getting paid for a dance. Have a card box and leave it at that