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Trixie325
Super October 2016

Guys. I can't believe I'm not invited to your wedding.

Trixie325, on June 5, 2016 at 10:09 PM

Posted in Wedding Attire 103

I didn't think it wouldn't happen.. but today I had someone message me with "i can't believe I'm not invited to your wedding" ...now let's keep in my that said person is my mom's best friend's daughter whom I'm friends with on Facebook and haven't physically seen or talked to in years; outside of...

I didn't think it wouldn't happen.. but today I had someone message me with "i can't believe I'm not invited to your wedding" ...now let's keep in my that said person is my mom's best friend's daughter whom I'm friends with on Facebook and haven't physically seen or talked to in years; outside of small social media conversations... I'm just in awe of some people and their audacity... anyone else have this happen?

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  • materantiqua
    VIP December 2016
    materantiqua ·
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    @Tiffany That's soooo awkward. I wouldn't know what to say either!

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  • Patricia
    VIP September 2016
    Patricia ·
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    That's so strange of people. Just because you know each other doesn't mean your invited. These are the people that know nothing of planning a wedding and also the cost of it.

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  • materantiqua
    VIP December 2016
    materantiqua ·
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    I am not looking forward to this backlash.

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  • kiandra
    Master October 2016
    kiandra ·
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    Thank God I haven't had anyone say anything yet but then again I haven't sent out my invitations only STD.

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  • OG Brittany
    Master December 2016
    OG Brittany ·
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    Your response should be, "I can't believe you thought I would invite you!" Or...tell her she can come if she wants to pay her own way (ie. dinner, drinks, etc,,). lol See how that works both ways? Smiley winking

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  • Crazyinlove<3
    Super September 2016
    Crazyinlove<3 ·
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    I'LL NEVER UNDERSTAND THIS!!! People come out of the woodwork for weddings....but why?!?! I would be embarrassed to automatically assume to a bride I was invited to her wedding. Why do people want to come to weddings to people they are not close to??? It's like we are giving away bags of cash at the end of it or something. If it's like this for a wedding, imagine how many people would come after you if you won the lottery. haha =)

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  • NowPartyof2
    Super April 2017
    NowPartyof2 ·
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    I am not looking forward to this and praying it doesn't happen to me. What did you say in response or did you just not respond?

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  • 5starFM
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    5starFM ·
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    I blame social media. These people wouldn't have a way to contact had it not been for Facebook, etc. And since most of these people are folks that haven't been seen in person for years, probably would have never found out anyway to be asking for an invite.

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  • MrsMorrison2be
    Devoted October 2016
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    I went to my cousins party a month ago and one of her friends saw my STD on the fridge and said make sure you invite me to your wedding......uh excuse me who are you again?

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  • H
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    Hammie ·
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    Yeah ew.

    I made the mistake of posting something about the wedding on Facebook. I had not one, but TWO old high school acquaintances comment saying "I better be getting an invite!" Umm... No. I just politely said we haven't finalized the guest list yet.. I definitely learned my lesson about posting on social media!

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  • AshMar
    Master April 2017
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    @Hammie. Me too. I learned the hard way. Never again

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  • GymRat
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    @Devon - I got a good one for you: FH posted a pic of me wishing me a Happy Birthday. Some dick friend of his comments, "marry the damn girl already! Oh, Happy Birthday by the way!" I was livid. Mind you this was 2 months before he proposed.

    The same day my Dad posted a pic of me with my baby shoes and tags me and FH. A friend of FH goes "so you know what my next question is, right?" Annoying! Every time she sees us the first and ONLY thing that comes out of her mouth is, "when are you guys going to get married?" I wanted to tell her, "when you pull out your check bitch."

    FH snapped at her one day when he bumped into her at a party cause she asked again. When we drafted the guest list we both decided to not invite her. Ooooh she's going to be sooooo mad LOL.

    @MrsMorrison2be: FH and I went to a friend's bday party and some chick I NEVER met in the 6 years we've been together said, "awww you guys make such a cute couple. FH when are you going to put a ring on it?" ughhh He said I ALREADY DID. She goes, "so am I invited?" Bish where? I never even met you!!!!!

    This is why we chose not to put anything on social media. Can you imagine?

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  • Simca
    Super April 2017
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    I had a text from my aunt yesterday telling me she was looking forward to my wedding next year. I copped out and ignored that bit of the text when i replied. She is my mums sister. I had asked my mum when we booked our venue if she wanted her brothers and sisters inviting and she said no as she had 10 surviving siblings and the family was now too large to invite everyone. My mum died in November last year and my aunt is doing her best to guilt trip me into inviting her.

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  • Chantel
    Master July 2016
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    @GymRat - I wish I could be that clever! FH and I used to always get that question too...when are you going to get married, did he put a ring on it yet? Like dudes, chill and let us live our lives OR like you said, gimme a cheque and we'll get right on that! LOL.

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  • BoozyBaker
    Master January 2017
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    Annnnd that's why I'm not fb friends with people I don't care about.

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  • Allymonbanana
    Super November 2016
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    My FH were talking about this last week! Why put someone in that position?! The way I see it is, Would they invite me/us to their wedding? I highly doubt it. I hate having anyone feel left out, but if I don't have your number and we don't know much about each other, how am I supposed to invite you to my wedding?? What a bunch of TURDS!

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  • Ololufe
    VIP August 2016
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    I just got off the phone with an invited guest telling me Mr. &Mrs. So do and so said they didn't get an invite. They are friends with your dad. Ask your dad for their address. Omg. I won't to snap so bad. If they were so important to him they would have been on his list. They never even made it on his list. Why are people so annoying. I'm at the point where I am going to intentionally B-list people who ask for an invite so that they know they are B-listed. Yes I know I can just say no but I'm too upset to think logically right now.

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  • WhitneyYvonne
    Super January 2017
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    I've had people come up to me and say I can't wait for your wedding! Or I better be invited and i wanna look at them and go this is literally the first time you've talked to me in years. Or for some first time ever!

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    Beginner September 2016
    Catherine ·
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    I made the mistake of making a facebook status about doing wedding related stuff and had one person insinuate he was coming and two others outright say they better be invited. Only one of them is invited. The reception is costing us $36 a person. The guy who insinuated is a guy that we invited to FH's birthday party last year and neither of us could stand him. The other person who said they better be invited is a chick I've met once.

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  • GymRat
    Master May 2017
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    @Ololufe - I'm wondering if I tell them it's a $20 admission, self-catered (just fish and chips), cash bar (just beer), standing room only wedding outdoors in a backyard at 2pm in the middle of the summer would they still come? lol

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