After lovingly curating a painstaking registry for both honeymoon (Disney) and home stuff (Amazon) so that people can pick how they want to give us stuff, my mother has informed me that the first person I gave the registry info to - my aunt - has decided to "generously" give me an off-registry item "because she thought I would like it."
How to deal with this? It's very, very extremely annoying that someone would go out of their way to ask for my registry information, look at it (I know she looked at it because she apparently commented to my mom that she was concerned I wouldn't have enough household items, even though I've been living on my own with my husband for 2 years now), and then go buy something else!
So here's my question... Should I put something on my wedding website on the registry page about "if you choose to purchase a gift, please get it from the registry"? I'm really not going to be very graceful as it is about these non-registry gifts, because if you want to know whether I will like a gift, GET SOMETHING FROM THE REGISTRY. Don't try to figure out what OTHER things I might like.
My other question is, am I being totally unreasonable and/or a Bridezilla here? I feel like I'm not, but would love some feedback from other current, future, and/or previous brides. 
Thanks in advance.
