FW & I are making things official next month with a small wedding. No wedding party, and just immediate family & friends.
Several of FW's friends expressed interest in throwing her a shower or Bachelorette Party. In the interest of keeping things small, FW made it clear that she didn't want either.
I was recently contacted by a couple of FW's friends. Turns out they have been planning a surprise bachelorette weekend anyway. They wouldn't share many details, but asked for my help in clearing FW's schedule, gathering contact info for friends, and packing some clothes for FW.
I wholeheartedly believe their intentions are in the right place. That said, I'm not sure how FW will react to all of this. I think she might enjoy the weekend, but I'm also concerned that she will be upset at all of us (me included) for not respecting her wishes.
Leaves me unsure if I should defend her wishes, or assist her friends in planning this weekend. Anyone been in this position or have advice?