For the Non-Virgin Brides...

Ok so I hope no one takes this wrong.. But I am doing the whole Strip pole thing... When him and I first met I was a stripper( But not a fully nude stripped) and I never stripped for him.. well as soon as i get back down to my old size I am going to start to practice again... For all the girls that want to do this... Just know that it isn't easy.. U need a lot of muscels to hold your body up on a pool that is like the size of your arms... Its fun though once you get spicy with it!!

Pole dancing sounds like fun. I might have to look into that. Other then that, I will get some sexy lingerie and possibly teach myself a strip tease. lol. That should be fun.

I am not doing anything special. I think the fact that it will be the first time as man and wife will be enough. I mean we won't be "vanilla" but nothing abnormal for us. If anyone is planning on getting a Brazilian make sure to do a trial run. As someone that is a regular to that I am used to it but it can cause a bad reaction to some or even cause an allergic reactions to the chemicals in the wax.

I'm hoping first time as man and wife will be plenty - I'd like it to be filled with emotion, not kink - kink is for other times imo. I have bought a birght red basque (need to buy the knickers still as they were out of stock) for the couple of nights away on honeymoon a few days after the wedding.

I've bought a black short nightie thing, which I hope he'll like for the wedding night, but we're both expecting nothing to happen that night if we're honest. My day starts at 8.30am when the make-up artist arrives (and I ned breakfast before that), and our music doesn't finish until 11pm, bar closes at 11.30pm, then we have to pack up and get back to the hotel (where the bar is still open!), so think we'll be too tired!

That is what I plan to do. Some pole dancing.

We took pole dancing class for my bachelorette party and it was a blast. a great workout and nicole is right, its pretty hard!

LOL Pole dancing sounds like fun but will they put a pole in your honeymoon suite or do you have to bring your own?

Lol @ Pole dancing. I thought I was the only one who was going to do that :-P I don't know if we'll have a chance to use it on the honeymoon because I doubt they'll be a pole around for me to use lol but I might learn how to give a sexy lapdance :-P. I think we're going to abstain for a couple months before the wedding (not that it's any different than our normal life but that's another post). That should do it

TIPIf you are doing a Brazillian wax GET TESTED FIRST!! You don't want to be on your honeymoon with painful hair bumps cause you picked a cheap and/or bad salon.

We didn't abstain. The night of - well that was a wash. We were exhausted. The honeymoon... I bought lots of sexy things to wear and he bought a video camera... Ta da!

I'm having a hard time coming up with this too! We are staying in a huge house with our entire bridal party, we have the master suite but we will still be in a house with 20 other people! I'd say we should get a hotel rooms somewhere but we have to be out of our venue at 10pm and plan on keeping the party going at the house and I just don't see us wanting to leave the party! Plus, we'd still have to pay for that night in the house which isn't cheap SO it probably won't be the most romantic but I'll def get some lingerie and it should be the perfect way to wrap up our amazing day.

I dont want to think about any added pressure to impress hahah soo maybe some nice lingerie thats about it...

@Michelle- That sounds like a good plan!

@Nikole- LOL yeah I was starting to wonder how would you show off pole dancing without a pole? (unless you have a pole in your house maybe?) But sexy lap dance should do.

I think I'm going to abstain for a few weeks, and get some sexy lingerie, and learn some lap dance moves.

I'm also wondering how tired I'm going to be. It seems every time I go dress shopping, I come home exhausted!!!! It's definitely going to be interesting to see how tired I get on the actual wedding day. Hopefully I can get a good night of sleep the night before. Anyone else wants to chime in on the energy level after the wedding?

@Jass - before deciding to abstain, maybe you should talk to you FS first? We've had several discussions on this topic here and whenever men chime in they are always VERY upset.

Mrs. Carmen's DS feelings were hurt when she brought up the subject...and so was my DS.

Just a suggestion

I hadn't thought about belly dancing. That sounds like fun. As for the pole, its taken care of for wedding night... Don't think they will let me bring it on the cruise for honeymoon though :-) I am planning on abstaining for maybe two weeks?? FH and I have discussed this, I think I will have a harder time than he will. I love the idea of playing out fantasies.

@The O-fficial MrsJoseph!- Thanks for mentioning that! I forgot to mention that I will talk to FS first of course when it comes to that stuff.

I agree with Mrs Joseph. If you already have an intimate relationship, I'm not sure withholding for the sake of novelty is the best idea. But that's just me. I'm sure on our wedding night we will be pretty pooped - but I'm looking forward to the honeymoon!

We'll h ave been abstinent for just over a week, but mostly due to both being ill, rundown etc!

Well my FS and I only did it once and I am pretty sure that we will go wild when I welcome him home from deployment in two weeks lol. But I have to fly back home few days after that, so there will be no sex for two weeks until wedding. But we only use condoms and we will finally use no condoms on wedding night, that get my FS super excited lol. I also got white lingerie from VS.

I used to take pole dancing lessons, super fun and such a workout!!!! I would get a decent amount of practice in first though, and your likely to bruise. I dont know if there is an xpose fitness close to you, but they offer floor/chair routines that are amazing and you can do anywhere! Have fun