For the Non-Virgin Brides...

Oh la la that should do it!!!! I had a little trip to VS

Good question ... I don't know ... My luck I'll be so freakin' tired the night after the wedding, I'll just want a bath and bed and then we'll probably have to be up at the crack of dawn to catch a flight either home or to our honeymoon destination ...

Our wedding is over at 12am, so we are going to go away for a few days just to relax and get over the whole wedding and i'm wearing some lace and fishnet under my wedding dress, so FH would enjoy it

I've previously asked FH about fantasies. I'm storing a few favorites in my memory to pull out for the honeymoon. Can't wait to shop for that ; )

That should do it, good idea. I was thinking about that but then FH and I will be abstinent for over a year when the wedding night come, I don't think he'll be interested in much foreplay that night, lol.

Your pole dance idea is great, get some nice lingerie, try to find out if he has any fantasies and buy those types of lingeries in his favorite colors, I think he'll love it.

I am not touching this one lmfaol

We're going to take some time off before hand. Maybe like a month before. That should add lots of oooh la la.

Well.. we had abstained for about 6 months.. that pretty much did it

I kinda want to keep it more "normal" than usual. =) Less spice, more romance. Kinky is for the honeymoon, and every other day that ends in Y.

I do have some white lingerie for that night, but other than that- nothing special. I have no intention of withholding prior to the wedding, except maybe the last few days while we're so busy taking care of last minute details.

And about the pole dancing classes- TOTALLY DO IT! I took a few, and they were so liberating! It really taught me alot about beign comfortable with my body (which I'm not since I gained 30 in a year...) and really allowed me to open up and try differnt things with FH. It was a blast and a great workout!

This might be TMI, but I'm considering a brazilian... lol and abstaining for about a month or so, maybe even longer.

I love the ideas ladies! FH actually mentioned this the other day about how it isn't going to be that special since we didn't wait... I guess he will stand corrected

We stopped a month ahead of time and that was enough for us. I had a white lingerie set I wore. But, to be honest we were so tired it really didn't matter. By the time we had our midnight snack of Taco Bell, a dip in the jacuzzi, the dead was done and we zonked out for the night. I am definitely buying some Fantasy outfits for our 1 year anniversary though...

Our honeymoon is in two months. I plan on making it, what I like to call, "love fest 2011". I would give details but I don't want to get "flagged", lol.

Pole dancing sounds like so much fun I wounder hmmmm not you got me thinking. You should do the pole dancing I think that would def put some zing into it.

I was thinking we'd abstain for maybe three months,and I'd buy some really nice lingerie and take it from there ; )

Pole Dancing Rocks!! The classes will really help you get fit before everything and they are such fun! Sometimes it is like being six years old and twirling and swinging on the pole like monkey bars on the playground. Sometimes it feels womanly and wonderfully juicy. The most wonderful ladies seem to land in pole or belly dance classes. And... the guys love it! They NEVER say, "No, you don't need another pair of stiletto's" or "Stay home and spend time with me when it is pole night."

Perhaps best of all... it is magical to see the guys watch the women they love twirl on the pole. They are in seventh heaven. Great idea!!

I haven't been in a pole class in a long time, but I think I should dust that off for our big event.

We're going to have guests staying at the house for about 10 days around the wedding. Just getting the house to ourselves will be excitement! But I do have a blue corset and some lap dancing moves from another lifetime I might be dusting off.

Pole lessons sounds perfect along with all the lingerie I got.

I've been wondering about this myself. I think lots of hot wax and some heart-to-hearts about unfulfilled fantasies.

I didn't realize a lot of people abstained beforehand! We already live together and have a child, but even if that weren't so, I wouldn't give THAT up.

I should probably work on skills involving my mouth...please don't flag me! lol I wish they gave classes for that!