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Fired bridesmaid

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Mrsbdg, on March 20, 2018 at 8:35 AM

Hey all!

This morning my cousin decided to "terminate" me as one of her bridesmaids. I was already sort of pressured into agreeing to be a bridesmaid in the first place because she is a favorite in the family.

Towards the end of the call she mentioned that she would still be "okay" if my DH and I came but that I was "banned" from wearing the $400 BM dress I literally just got 🙄

So:
If you've been "fired" would you still attend (there would be significant family drama for skipping out)?

As a "fired" BM would you go out and get another gown foresaking your recently purchased dress? (It's super simple black sweetheart spaghetti strap full a-line/bordering on ball gown)

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Expert October 2018
FutureMrsS · on June 8, 2018 at 11:52 AM
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Please tell me that you are still going to attend the wedding rocking the newly altered dress and looking fabulous! You should do the "Mr. & Mrs. Jones" look with the black dress, slit up to the hip, and bright red lipstick!
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Expert September 2018
R · on June 8, 2018 at 3:29 PM
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I would see if someone else wants the dress and see if you can return it. I personally feel she should refund you for firing you. That's rude to ask, make you buy a dress and rescind your offer.... I've cancelled a previous wedding and a BM bought a BM dress and I refunded her. I would still go if it were open bar and good food... I wouldn't lose sleep over not going though....
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Super September 2018
Allie · on June 8, 2018 at 4:24 PM
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NOOOOOOOO WAY would i still attend! lol
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Devoted January 2019
Amanduh · on June 8, 2018 at 4:57 PM
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I would definitely not come. What a total bridezilla.
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