Exes at weddings.

@K&A, hahahahahahah! Love that.

@Gina, an adult view of the relationship? Meaning you BOTH were adults once it was over? Ha! I've been the adult. He hasn't... lol. He still is into the whole, "oh, babe, don't forget to block my ex on Facebook. We haven't had a conversation in 3 years"

Seriously... you're 25.

We had a girl there that my husband had "relations" with only because she was dating his friend. Lol other than that we probably only had a handful of friends there.

If there's kids involved maybe if you're relationship isn't bad so they can be there for them but just because... No thanks!

@rusticbride: what can I say? that's the way we roll 'round here

We had the naked rule. If they had seen one of us naked they weren't invited.

My ex-husband will be there but that's because our younger daughter is autistic and we never know day to day how she will act. If she wants to leave, I wanted someone that doesn't really matter to be able to just go with her. One of my previous friends with benefits will also be there but we are good friends (were friends before we started hooking up and stayed friends whenever we have/had SO's). FH is aware of the relationship we had and is okay with him attending so it's all good.

My spouse's ex-husband was her best man. He gave a hilarious speech about their marriage, and her realizing she was gay, and becoming friends. It was the best "best man speech" I've ever heard!

If my ex-husband was still alive I certainly would have invited him. He was my dear friend and, as co-parents, I considered him family. I really regret that my spouse never met him--they'd have loved each other!

I have one other ex who I became friends with who attended (with his wife and daughter), but we've been exes for so many years I don't even think of him that way.

There are certainly exes I wouldn't want to see!

N.O.

My ex is an ex for a reason. We haven't stayed in touch and I never plan to

FH wanted to invite his ex gf that he was with for 4 years. I drew the line there. NO WAY.

My ex-husband attended my wedding. (He jokingly offered to give me away, but of course we didn't take him up on it.) But it really depends on your relationship. I was married to the ex for nearly 20 years, and he was the father of both of my children/our attendants. He proved not very good at relationships. (He left me in 1995, and I don't think has had a relationship that has lasted more than 2 years since then.) But we needed to stay a part of each other's lives to rear the children, anyway, and he's not a bad guy.

I stayed close with my ex's family - we broke up 8 years ago but I was invited to his sister's wedding, then his brother's wedding two years ago. I thought for a long time whether I should invite them but I thought it was for the best not to.

I went to my high school sweethearts wedding years ago, but at my wedding, NO thank you to any of them, in the past for a reason! In fact a friend of mine is dating my last ex before FH and she didnt get a guest, bc he is not welcome (yes she is still coming as she understands the awkwardness that could create for FH)!!

I am inviting my ex husband and his wife to the wedding. We have two boys and I want them to have a someone take them home when it's time to party. Plus I have no ill feelings towards him because he had to get out of the way in order for my blessing to come.

Nope, no way LOL not appropriate at all

Nope, no way LOL not appropriate at all

I think it depends in the situation whether its ok or not. Technically my husbands ex attended our wedding but it was a high school thing and they dated for like 4 months.

I had a problem with her for a little while but it was mostly because she kept talking to him and not to me. When she realized how hurtful that was she worked to become my friend too and now we are friends and she flew all the way up from FL to come.

It really depends on the situation and the people. For me, HELL NO, none of my exes are invited. But if I had a cool ex that I was still friends with, I likely would. I think you can still be friends with people you've banged, but I would not personally know.

I have one ex coming, but we were never serious. It was for a few months in hs and was more of a bored/fun thing. And nothing serious happened either. FH has met him and sees there is NO threat. Euripides exes? Big fat no.

Im not inviting my exH (or any of his family) but i am inviting someone i had a very close (*cough*) 'relationship' with, of course he's also my ex-boss lol. FH knows about him and is ok with him and his gf being invited.

Nobody I banged will be coming to my wedding... Besides FH of course!!

Leave the past in the past, keep heading into the future!