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Exes at weddings.

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rusticbride, on November 13, 2013 at 11:21 AM

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Names have been changed.. lol. Our STD's went out yesterday but I prepared them all last week. Gave every parent the chance to look at their guest lists and add/replace/subtract, etc. My Mom wants to add a lady named *Susan Shmoe* to the list. Susan Shmoe is the mother of *Joe Shmoe.* Joe Shmoe is...

Names have been changed.. lol.

Our STD's went out yesterday but I prepared them all last week. Gave every parent the chance to look at their guest lists and add/replace/subtract, etc.

My Mom wants to add a lady named *Susan Shmoe* to the list. Susan Shmoe is the mother of *Joe Shmoe.* Joe Shmoe is my ex-bf. We dated for 5 years in high school/college. Haven't talked to her or him in about 3 years and neither has my Mom.

After I picked up my jaw, I asked why, of course. She said my ex and I "grew up" together. Uh, haven't talked to EITHER of them since the break up.... huh?! Joe just got married recently. I asked if they had invited my Mom to THEIR wedding. NO. They didn't. So no, he's not invited nor his mother.

So that made me curious. Did/is anyone inviting an ex to their wedding? Anyone worried about that? Anyone totally fine with it?

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Super October 2014
Bianca · on November 13, 2013 at 11:12 PM
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F#@# No! Since to this day most of them still want him back. I may make an exeption for one of this good friends whom he dated over 14 years ago.
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Master February 2014
ItsGoodToBeKing · on November 13, 2013 at 11:14 PM
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FH suggested I invite them all so that the groomsmen could shoot them with paintball guns
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VIP August 2014
Niecy Sparkles · on November 14, 2013 at 12:46 AM
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Don't mind if I were still friends with an ex. But I'm not so nope.
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Beginner September 2015
levijohn · on November 14, 2013 at 12:52 AM
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What my ex at my wedding? Nope Nope Nope . i know it's a hard moment for me so i never do it.
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Master October 2011
Mrs.L · on November 14, 2013 at 12:54 AM
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An ex is an ex for a reason. I lose contact with an ex almost immediately after the break up. So, I wouldn't even know where to get a hold of them (well maybe if I tried, two of the serious exes- we do share mutual friends), but I wouldn't even dream of it.

Then again, I am having an intimate wedding (100 guests) and honestly, if I haven't spoken to you in x amount of years, there's no way im dropping $110 for your dinner and whatever the rest of the total of $ I am paying per person, once I add all the other details together.

Plus, I don't believe in having relationships with exes. That's just me. IMHO it's pointless. My exes are basically strangers now.
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Super April 2014
Kristie & Bryce · on November 14, 2013 at 1:01 AM
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I draw the line at FB friends, lol... Wedding? Nuh uh!
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Master June 2014
DlovesD · on November 14, 2013 at 1:59 AM
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No way Jose!!!
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Just Said Yes February 2020
Tracy · on December 3, 2019 at 7:06 PM
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