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dme_cjm
VIP September 2010

Engaged after a month????!!!

dme_cjm, on April 23, 2010 at 6:10 PM Posted in Planning 0 61

So my crazy sister sent me a text at midnite last nite to tell me that her and her boyfriend are engaged. OMG! She has only been dating this guy for less than a month AND when they started "hanging out" she said they weren't dating...she just wanted him as a friend with benefits. She hooked up with him the day after breaking up with another guy she dated for 3 months. She goes thru men like crazy. AND then yesterday morning she called me asking me to cosign on a loan of $10k so THEY can buy a trailer......but the trailer needed fixed up alot. SHe has no credit and he has horrible bc his house was foreclosed. NO WAY....the longest she has kept a job for was 4 months. I lied to her about my credit bc there is no way a trust her to make payments. What is she thinking??????

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Latest activity by Sarah, on April 27, 2010 at 11:08 AM
  • ladylee
    Master June 2010
    ladylee ·
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    She crazy just a little bit!

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  • Bride2B
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    Bride2B ·
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    *speechless*

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  • tracey
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    tracey ·
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    WOW i think he cheese has slid of her cracker!

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  • L
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    She's pretty young huh.... wow yeah I wouldn't sign for her either

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  • Sweetbella
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    You have a right to say no to cosign, beside it was too risky for you to cosign when she can ruin your credit. I got engaged with mine after 4 months BUT we were serious about each others and we are very old fashioned. I can't judge but I can tell right now that if she does go through men like crazy, it shows that she doesn't love herself. That she feel better when she has someone. Trust me they won't last because one, they were friends of benefits and two they rushed to be engaged when they wasnt serious about each others. And two, they wanted to spend 10k on a trailer??? If they wanted a future together so bad and taking it seriously, they should be planning for their future meaning a wedding and etc. But you are her sister, that even if she is not making the right choice, be sure to support her and if she ask for your opinion, be HONEST. My brother wasn't happy that I got engaged, he felt I was going too fast and I understand his reaction.

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  • Pumpkin
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    Just sit back, relax, and watch it fizzle out.

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  • Angie
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    Wow ... good choice not cosigning lol

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  • Sweetbella
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    Sweetbella ·
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    Oh yea relationships dont last when the person dont love themselves.

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  • Analy aka T-waffle
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    Analy aka T-waffle ·
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    Ok, I don't mean to be rude, please don't take this the wrong way but I have to ask....

    Could she be pregnant? Hence the rush?

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  • Deirdre
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    Yikes! yeah I would be concerned too if she were my sister..

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  • imparis79
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    WOW!! My friend and her now husband got married after knowing eachother for less then 3 months.

    I wouldn't have co-signed for that loan either. Especially is she can't hold down a job.

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  • Mrs. Jayjohn
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    Wow, I was thinking the same thing Analy was.

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  • dme_cjm
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    Shes 25 (2 yrs older than me) and no preggers had 2 by time she was 20 and after #2 the is cut, tied, burned.....FIXED. I told her congrats and stuff and she said they were waiting "a while" but im not sure how long that is gonna be. I just told her it would be best if they waited. I could not believe that....I mean yeah she might love him, but that's not enough time to know someone before you agree to spend your life together. She knew him from the bar they both go to. lol. I just hate seeing her go through men like crazy. every week was a different guy and my poor nephews are 4 and 6 and everytime she brings one home another one shows up.

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  • Sweetbella
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    Wow not a good place to meet the soulmate is at a bar lol. BUT my parents did meet at military nightclub and got engaged after 6 weeks of dating. Were married for 24 years. Anyway I am sorry about your sister, let just hope he is the one for her. Try to get to know him if that can help a little bit.

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  • Tara
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    More then likely they will get tired of each other and part ways way before any wedding is planned or executed. Just hope they don't decide to elope!!!!!

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  • Sweetbella
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    Am I only one who been with my love less than a year before got engaged?

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  • Heather
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    No Megan, we were together 9 months when we got engaged and our wedding night will be our 2 year anniversary.

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  • Sweetbella
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    Sweetbella ·
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    Wow heather, congrats and cute pic! You are getting married two days after my birthday :-) When we get married, it will be a year and a half years together.

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  • Mrs. Kline (Sass)
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    Wow and I thought I was impulsive... Dang.

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  • Mrs. Kline (Sass)
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    @megan I was together 3 months and our wedding is a day before us being engaged a year. Don't worry less than a year isn't weird but less than a month... welll that is a little odd.

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