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The Bride
Master March 2019

Does Your Spouse Know How Many Sexual Partners You've Had?

The Bride, on July 10, 2019 at 10:17 PM Posted in Married Life 0 59
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Before getting married to your partner did you discuss how many sexual partners you've had in the past? Why or why not?


Does Your Spouse Know How Many Sexual Partners You've Had? 1


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Latest activity by Emilee, on July 11, 2019 at 7:10 PM
  • Monique
    Master December 2019
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    Yes we did. It just happened to come up in a conversation one day. It wasn’t a huge deal for either of us to talk about it.
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  • Stacey
    Devoted July 2020
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    Neither one of us gave an exact amount but we have a good idea of the quantity we each had. To be honest he wasn’t bothered but it bothers me a bit. I really don’t think about it anymore.
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  • The Bride
    Master March 2019
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    How many would have been too many for you to handle?

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  • The Bride
    Master March 2019
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    Did you two not provide exact numbers because you didn't feel comfortable or you just didn't think it was necessary?

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  • Monique
    Master December 2019
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    That’s a hard question really. I consider A persons past to be their past.
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  • The Bride
    Master March 2019
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    I understand. I feel the same way, however, at a certain point I would feel a little uncomfortable and want to inquire more about the time frame in between each one, the relationship status, if protection was used, etc. I think that would give me more insight into who the man really is.

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  • Shannon
    Expert June 2021
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    We have. Neither of us were angels in our younger years.

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  • The Bride
    Master March 2019
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    Is there a number of partners that either of you would have been uncomfortable with?

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  • Laura
    Master October 2019
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    We don't know the exact number for each other...we're older and we realize there are a few lovers in our pasts. I don't really care to know and he doesn't either

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  • Shannon
    Expert June 2021
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    Nope. We've both been tested. We're clean and benefit from each other's past experiences. Win/Win in my mind.

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  • A
    Expert August 2019
    Ami ·
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    Ironically I know his but he doesnt know mine....he knows i have more of a past but has never asked questions about it. It's all in the past....
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  • M
    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    Yes we both know. I don't think it's something that needs to be hidden
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  • D
    Super July 2020
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    We shared our numbers pretty early on in the relationship. Wasn't a big deal. Honestly wouldn't have had a problem with any number below 40.
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  • Selena
    Super September 2019
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    We didn't share, we both have had our wilder days. Also I just didn't care, still don't. There isn't a number that would have been "too many" anyways.
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  • 2d Bride
    Champion October 2009
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    Well, if I knew the number myself, I could have told her. But she's at least aware of the general parameters.

    I've heard about some of her past partners, but I've never asked her for a count.

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  • Jasmine
    Master August 2021
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    I know his but I'm not sure if he knows mine. I don't see why I wouldn't have mentioned it when his was brought up but it's definitely a LOW number on both ends. It wasn't something that either of us really dwelled on talking about in detail.

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  • The Bride
    Master March 2019
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    Thank you for sharing.

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  • The Bride
    Master March 2019
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    I definitely agree that you could benefit from your past experiences.

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  • The Bride
    Master March 2019
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    I always want to know more details than muy husband does. Maybe our guys are similar.

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  • The Bride
    Master March 2019
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    I definitely think that before you get married you should put everything on the table and make sure your partner can accept it first.

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