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Stacey
Expert October 2010

Do you hold your bouquet during the ceremony?

Stacey, on June 22, 2010 at 12:29 AM Posted in Planning 0 20

And when do you hand if off?

My ceremony is in a gazebo and it will just be me, my fh and the offciant, is it okay to have my moh, or my mom walk in to get it for me?

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Latest activity by ladylee, on June 22, 2010 at 10:59 PM
  • Lacy
    Master October 2017
    Lacy ·
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    I think you hold it until the officiant has you face one another and then you hand it over to the MOH. When it is time for you and your then husband to walk down together, your MOH will hand you your bouquet back.

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  • Stacey
    Expert October 2010
    Stacey ·
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    Do you face each other before the rings are handed to you, or the officate?

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  • Lacy
    Master October 2017
    Lacy ·
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    Lol I have no idea on that part! I'm bordering on exhaustion at the moment.

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  • Bright Eyes
    Master August 2012
    Bright Eyes ·
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    My mom said that I would hold the bouquet to walk down the aisle, kiss my dad, and then hand the bouquet to my MOH immediately and take FS's hands. I'm not sure how everyone else did it, but that's what I'll probably do lol.

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  • Stacey
    Expert October 2010
    Stacey ·
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    I like the idea of holding his hand, but I guess I could hold the boquet it one hand, and his in the other!

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  • Future Mrs. P
    Super October 2010
    Future Mrs. P ·
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    I agree with everyone else, typically the bride hands off the bouquet to the MOH.

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  • M
    Master March 2011
    Mrs. Boat ·
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    You hand it off to your MOH when it's vows/ring time.

    This is something you'll get a feel for during your rehearsal. If you're dying to know, ask your officiant for a copy of his ceremony script so you can see it in writing Smiley smile

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  • Bright Eyes
    Master August 2012
    Bright Eyes ·
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    Here's this. Hope it helps!!

    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20080523043805AAkOMf6

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  • MrsDevine
    Master August 2010
    MrsDevine ·
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    Wow i just realised after all the time its gonna take to get to the aisle, its gonna kill me to get that close to fh and not kiss him.... were extremely physical people and were always touching and kissing... im gonna just be like, i do i do! and lay one on him! lol but as for your question, yeah you hand it to your moh. and i believe you face fh when your about to say your vows. the rest, your facing the officiante

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  • Jessica
    Super September 2011
    Jessica ·
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    Just hand it to your MOH before you step into the gazebo and then she will hand it back to you when you step back out for the recessional.

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  • Beverly  Edwards
    Beverly Edwards ·
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    Yep, you hold it until vow time. that's when you will face each other (altho some officiants may have other plans---ask!) Also, you want your hands free for the rings! Jessica is right on the timing.

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  • Soon-2-B-MrsBurke
    Super May 2011
    Soon-2-B-MrsBurke ·
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    Oh crap I really wasn't thinking about this because I'm like well u hand it to the MOH but now that I read all of this I'm don't know what to do. I'm having a very different wedding compared to most people. I wrote my own ceremony mixing a tradition and a tradition native wedding. So now I have no clue what to do. On my side I will have my MOH, My basket giver, RB and FG. Now I know you are suppose to have ur MOH stand next to you but I was going to have my basket giver do that because she will be handing me my basket so early in the game so I can't hand her my flowers and I don't want to make things like weird by walking past her and handing them to my MOH. Shit what do I do lol.

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  • Nicci
    Master July 2010
    Nicci ·
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    I was planning on holding in until we exchanged vows and faced each other..then we hand it off. Then before we walk away she gives it right back haha

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  • JessSquared
    Super July 2010
    JessSquared ·
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    I'm planning on giving mine to my MoH right when I get to the FH and having her hand it back to me after the kiss. I wrote the whole ceremony and do not have the officiant saying a whole lot before the vows start so FH and I will be facing eachother and holding hands the entire ceremony.

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  • Sharon
    Master June 2010
    Sharon ·
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    I held mine until we started he asked to face each other, then my MOH took in it. She gaveit back before we walked back down the aisle.

    @Love - we almost kissed in the middle of it and the officiant said "whooa, not yet" lol

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  • Malinda & Stefan
    VIP August 2010
    Malinda & Stefan ·
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    Don't stress this is one of those things the rehearsal is for.. So you can work out the little details.. you can either hand it off when you step into the gazebo or you MOH can grab it from ya when you start your vows

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  • Rachael from Nearlyweds
    Dedicated July 2009
    Rachael from Nearlyweds ·
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    Totally agree with Malinda above. Try not to think about these details until the rehearsal. Your officiant should be able to help and you'll get a feel for what to do.

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  • Cesar Cabrera
    Cesar Cabrera ·
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    Honestly... Wedding ceremonies vary a lot from one officiant to another... So I would tell you this... Whenever you are to face your FH for the first time during the ceremony, hand it to the MOH...

    Then make sure you have it as you walk out...

    Also, make sure it makes it to the reception intact (I've seen quite a few get lost or damaged)...

    but most important, have fun, enjoy your day! :-)

    Cesar

    http://www.cesarcabrera.com

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  • Stacey
    Expert October 2010
    Stacey ·
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    Thanks everyone!!

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  • ladylee
    Master June 2010
    ladylee ·
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    I held my bouquet up to the point where the minister asked who gives this woman. My dad shook DH's hand, gave me a kiss and took his seat. Then the minister asked us to join hands and that's when I handed the bouquet off to my sister.

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