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Do you go to sleep at the same time?

Lynnie, on September 10, 2019 at 11:51 AM

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Final question! Do you and your fiancé(e) go to sleep together at the same time at night? Or are you on totally different schedules? Do you go to sleep at the same time? Never, always, or sometimes? Photo by Lovers of Love Photography in Oceanside, CA ⭐⭐⭐⭐ We hope you had fun dishing about your...

Final question! Do you and your fiancé(e) go to sleep together at the same time at night? Or are you on totally different schedules?

Do you go to sleep at the same time? Never, always, or sometimes?


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125 Comments

  • 8Bitbek
    Devoted October 2020
    8Bitbek ·
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    We have similar schedules, so we're usually going to bed at the same time unless one of us has the day off the next day.

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  • Melissa
    Dedicated July 2021
    Melissa ·
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    Only when we have the same days off.
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  • Cora
    Savvy November 2019
    Cora ·
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    Most nights we do.

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  • Stephanie
    Savvy August 2020
    Stephanie ·
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    Always go to bed together! Unless video games have consumed him 😅
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  • Grace
    Dedicated December 2019
    Grace ·
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    Almost always. We have nightly and morning rituals, so even if we don't "go to sleep" at the same time, we put the other to bed. But we almost always go to sleep at the same time to get the full nightly ritual of ending our day together.
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  • Rebecca
    Master August 2019
    Rebecca ·
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    Never on weeknights. He works early mornings, I work dinner shift. I usually go to bed as he's waking up, simply because he gets up at 3:30, and I usually get home around midnight.

    It's awful, but we're used to it... it'll probably be strange when it eventually shifts...

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  • MrsV1027
    Master October 2018
    MrsV1027 ·
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    Only on the weekends. During the week he gets up 2-3 hours before I do and I have to stay up to take out the dog before bed.

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  • Nikki
    Expert March 2021
    Nikki ·
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    Usually we are Bed together at the same time but he would fall asleep first as he gets up at 5:30am and I work from home so I don’t have to get up until 10:20am
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  • Alyssa
    Devoted October 2019
    Alyssa ·
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    We almost never go to bed at the same time. I always stay up a little later watching tv or on social media. It’s my little alone time that I take since everyone is sleeping.
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  • Ashley
    Expert October 2021
    Ashley ·
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    We go to bed at the same time normally. Sleep is another matter all together lol
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  • Cher Horowitz
    Master December 2019
    Cher Horowitz ·
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    Sometimes! He's more of a night owl and it's normal for him to stay up until 3-4 am. Me on the other hand, 12 - 1 am is my max Smiley laugh

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  • Andrea
    Master January 2021
    Andrea ·
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    Almost never for us. My fh is a night owl. I prefer to have a traditional bed time and wake up time, especially with two young daughters. You know what they say, up and at em!!

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  • Stephanie
    Super August 2019
    Stephanie ·
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    Sometimes! I work three nights a week, so we aren’t only gone together the other 4 nights.. but on those nights it’s even a toss up. Sometimes he passes our on the couch while we watch a movie, but we always get Bed together when I’m home.
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  • Sarah
    Devoted April 2022
    Sarah ·
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    We do now. When my partner was a brand-new teacher (and, that same year, dealing with a horrible, abusive boss), her sleep schedule was completely erratic. She would crash at 7 or 8pm, wake up at 2am, go back to sleep at 3, and wake up again at 5 or 6.

    Now that both of those stressors are gone (she’s tenured and at a different school), we have pretty much the same sleep schedule. We both go to bed around 11-12am and wake up around 7am on weekdays. I sleep in on weekends—usually until 10 or 11 😬—but she tends to still get up early.
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  • Kalie
    Dedicated June 2020
    Kalie ·
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    We always go to bed at the same time, but I go in later to work, so I usually stay up later.
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  • Kaylee
    Dedicated September 2020
    Kaylee ·
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    We lay down together at the same time but he always falls asleep first!
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  • Katie
    Devoted November 2020
    Katie ·
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    We both work nights so we sleep st the same time usually. He just gets home like an hour before me. So hes sleeping already when I pop into bed
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  • Ashley
    Just Said Yes October 2020
    Ashley ·
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    Always, except for sometimes on the weekend
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  • MD
    Super July 2019
    MD ·
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    Sometimes. I need way more sleep than him, so he usually comes to bed at least an hour after me.

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  • Jessica
    Dedicated September 2019
    Jessica ·
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    Sometimes, every other week he's at work when I'm in bed.
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