Lynnie
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Do you go to sleep at the same time?

Lynnie, on September 10, 2019 at 11:51 AM Posted in Married Life 0 117
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Final question! Do you and your fiancé(e) go to sleep together at the same time at night? Or are you on totally different schedules?

Do you go to sleep at the same time? Never, always, or sometimes?


Do you go to sleep at the same time? 1

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117 Comments

  • Cristy
    Rockstar May 2020
    Cristy ·
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    No, we usually don't. FH works 4am to 4:30pm everyday, and I work 8-4:30, so he gets up at 3am!! Yikes!

    As a result, he's usually nodding off by about 8pm, and has to go to bed. I'm not usually ready for bed at that time. I'm often cleaning up the kitchen from dinner, making lunches for the next day, as well as setting up my coffee for the morning. I try to make it to bed by 10pm, but he's usually sound asleep by then!

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  • Melle
    Rockstar June 2019
    Melle ·
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    I usually sleep before him but not too much before
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  • Amber
    Master February 2020
    Amber ·
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    Almost never. Our schedules are different so I get up at 6:30AM and go to bed around midnight while he gets up at 11:30AM and goes to bed around 4:00AM. But on the weekends we do sleep at the same time!

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  • Jess
    Expert October 2019
    Jess ·
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    We have the same schedule and work early mornings so we go to bed at the same time. sometimes i’ll get up a little later than him but we always go to bed together.
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  • Lauren
    Super September 2019
    Lauren ·
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    Most of the time. If he has to go into work early then he goes to bed first. If I have to work late nights then sometimes he will wait up or go to bed without me.

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  • Jen
    Super May 2018
    Jen ·
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    Our schedules are pretty similar so we typically go to bed together and get up together during the week but not necessarily on weekends.

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  • Mrsbdg
    Champion August 2017
    Mrsbdg ·
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    Sometimes. He goes to bed early (10-11 PM) and I go to bed later (11-midnight) since we get up at different times.
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  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
    Caytlyn ·
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    Always. I worked third shift for a good portion of our relationship and we were on 100% opposite schedules. Now that I'm not a vampire anymore, we really value being able to sleep together.

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  • Emily
    Expert April 2020
    Emily ·
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    We’re on two totally different schedules!
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  • Amanda
    Expert October 2019
    Amanda ·
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    Sometimes, but most of the time no.
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  • H
    Super September 2019
    H ·
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    Nope. I'm always in bed first. He works 2nd 12hour shifts so evening his days off hes not typically in bed till closer to 3am.
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  • Yam
    VIP September 2019
    Yam ·
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    We usually don’t, he goes to bed by far later than me because he can fully function on 6 hours of sleep and I need 8 hours just to not to walk into walls. We only sleep at the same time if we pass out.
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  • Erin
    Super June 2021
    Erin ·
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    Almost never. He tends to stay up later playing video games with his friends.
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  • Samantha
    Expert October 2020
    Samantha ·
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    We always go to bed at the same time, even if we can’t fall asleep. We’ll read or watch TV together, but we’ll always go to bed together unless there’s a very good reason one of us has to stay up.
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  • Nicole
    Super September 2020
    Nicole ·
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    Sometimes. We used to always go to bed together, but lately with workouts/work we have been on different schedules in the evening. It's not worth staying up past when you're ready for bed to wait for them, and it's not fair to them to go to bed when they still have things they want to accomplish/football games to watch LOL

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  • Laura
    Rockstar October 2019
    Laura ·
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    Almost always. I get up with him for work to make him coffee and talk. If it's a different time it's never more than an hour or so

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  • Kelsey
    VIP September 2020
    Kelsey ·
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    Most of the time. Sometimes he will play a video game before bed but usually we go to bed at the same time

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  • Cyndy
    Master May 2019
    Cyndy Online ·
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    Most of the time but I like to get more sleep so sometimes I head to be earlier.
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  • Heather
    Devoted February 2020
    Heather ·
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    Depends on the night. If he has work the next morning then yes, but if he’s off and I have work no. Typically I go to bed at the same time as him even if I don’t have work the next morning, but that’s more because I’m always tired 🤷🏼‍♀️
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  • Lisa
    Dedicated September 2019
    Lisa ·
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    Always. We have this saying... give me my 5 minutes (cuddling). We have not missed our 5 minutes once since we moved in together 4 years ago Smiley smile

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