Do you go to sleep at the same time?

No, we usually don't. FH works 4am to 4:30pm everyday, and I work 8-4:30, so he gets up at 3am!! Yikes!

As a result, he's usually nodding off by about 8pm, and has to go to bed. I'm not usually ready for bed at that time. I'm often cleaning up the kitchen from dinner, making lunches for the next day, as well as setting up my coffee for the morning. I try to make it to bed by 10pm, but he's usually sound asleep by then!

I usually sleep before him but not too much before

Almost never. Our schedules are different so I get up at 6:30AM and go to bed around midnight while he gets up at 11:30AM and goes to bed around 4:00AM. But on the weekends we do sleep at the same time!

We have the same schedule and work early mornings so we go to bed at the same time. sometimes i’ll get up a little later than him but we always go to bed together.

Most of the time. If he has to go into work early then he goes to bed first. If I have to work late nights then sometimes he will wait up or go to bed without me.

Our schedules are pretty similar so we typically go to bed together and get up together during the week but not necessarily on weekends.

Sometimes. He goes to bed early (10-11 PM) and I go to bed later (11-midnight) since we get up at different times.

Always. I worked third shift for a good portion of our relationship and we were on 100% opposite schedules. Now that I'm not a vampire anymore, we really value being able to sleep together.

We’re on two totally different schedules!

Sometimes, but most of the time no.

Nope. I'm always in bed first. He works 2nd 12hour shifts so evening his days off hes not typically in bed till closer to 3am.

We usually don’t, he goes to bed by far later than me because he can fully function on 6 hours of sleep and I need 8 hours just to not to walk into walls. We only sleep at the same time if we pass out.

Almost never. He tends to stay up later playing video games with his friends.

We always go to bed at the same time, even if we can’t fall asleep. We’ll read or watch TV together, but we’ll always go to bed together unless there’s a very good reason one of us has to stay up.

Sometimes. We used to always go to bed together, but lately with workouts/work we have been on different schedules in the evening. It's not worth staying up past when you're ready for bed to wait for them, and it's not fair to them to go to bed when they still have things they want to accomplish/football games to watch LOL

Almost always. I get up with him for work to make him coffee and talk. If it's a different time it's never more than an hour or so

Most of the time. Sometimes he will play a video game before bed but usually we go to bed at the same time

Most of the time but I like to get more sleep so sometimes I head to be earlier.

Depends on the night. If he has work the next morning then yes, but if he’s off and I have work no. Typically I go to bed at the same time as him even if I don’t have work the next morning, but that’s more because I’m always tired 🤷🏼‍♀️

Always. We have this saying... give me my 5 minutes (cuddling). We have not missed our 5 minutes once since we moved in together 4 years ago