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Do you get annoyed with your bridal party?

Lynnie, on May 21, 2019 at 11:24 AM Posted in Family and Relationships 1 110
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Time to fess up! Have you ever gotten annoyed or irritated with your bridal party? Or has it all been smooth sailing? What happened that got your blood boiling??

Are you innocent or guilty?


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  • Mrs. H
    Master September 2019
    Mrs. H
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    There's only one bridesmaid I've gotten annoyed with, and that's because she's openly admitted it's difficult for her to be happy for me because she is still waiting on her baby daddy to propose after 3 years together; he won't. Instead, he got her pregnant again Smiley ups

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  • Victoria
    Super May 2019
    Victoria
    • Flag
    I have but I honestly think it鈥檚 because I鈥檓 super stressed. Two of them make little comments here and there that just make me so angry. 馃槀
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  • Kelsey
    VIP September 2020
    Kelsey
    • Flag

    I have one bridesmaid that I'm a bit annoyed with. She keeps wanting me to pick out their dresses and meet up to do so. It's too early to do this, especially since my MOH may be pregnant during my wedding.

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  • Jennifer
    Expert October 2019
    Jennifer
    • Flag
    FH's best man is an overachiever. But he keeps talking to me instead of my intended! He's a dear friend to both of us, and he's trying to surprise FH, but FH loathes surprises, and I'm stuck in an awkward situation. While my MoH is somewhat frustratingly hands off. So... yeah. There's been some frustration.
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  • Megan
    Dedicated August 2019
    Megan
    • Flag
    A couple of the groomsman. Only because of how they have treated my future husband.
    And then, my SIL (bridesmaid) has been outright SUPER rude to me and seems very ungrateful about everything. She takes forever to answer my wedding questions or ignores them! Drives me nuts. She is only 18 but ugh...
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  • Kristin
    Super November 2019
    Kristin
    • Flag

    Guilty. Just one of the 5 who, really, I should have known would get under my skin. I love her, don't get me wrong. I am very self-reliant and never really needed to ask her for anything but knowing how she talks about other people I should have been prepared for some issues.

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  • Formerbride
    VIP June 2019
    Formerbride
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    Innocent. We aren't expecting anything other than their presence. Low key is the name of the game.
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  • Future Mrs. K
    VIP June 2019
    Future Mrs. K
    • Flag

    Innocent. I haven't really expected anything from them so I haven't been disappointed.

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  • Meghan
    Rockstar October 2019
    Meghan
    • Flag

    So far they have been pretty good. We will see how the next few months go Smiley xd

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  • Jessica
    VIP October 2019
    Jessica
    • Flag
    Innocent.
    I have 2 Jr Bridesmaids that are 7 and 12, so they're both eager to do stuff with me on the weekends when I can. Other than that i only have my Maid of Honor And Matron of Honor. My maid is currently working out of state and my matron lives several cities away, but they both have been super supportive and we have a group text msg and all talk almost everyday. I send them pics of stuff and they help me make decisions I can't on my own. They both made it a point to each go dress shopping with me alone. They've honestly been great providing our circumstances of distance.
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  • Adara
    Devoted October 2019
    Adara
    • Flag

    Innocent. Nope

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  • Jessica
    VIP September 2020
    Jessica Online
    • Flag
    We haven鈥檛 done much yet, so smooth sailing so far. Mostly I鈥檓 just annoyed with my family right now, for reasons unrelated to the wedding.
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  • Allie
    Master August 2019
    Allie
    • Flag

    Innocent because I have no bridal party lol.

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  • Fenja
    Rockstar December 2020
    Fenja
    • Flag

    Innocent! Only having a MOH who lives in a different country Smiley smile

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  • Larisa
    Devoted July 2019
    Larisa
    • Flag
    Innocent. Haven鈥檛 had a problem. They鈥檝e all been there and helped in their different ways that fit them.
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  • Rachel
    Devoted October 2019
    Rachel
    • Flag

    NOPE! My bridal party is super small --> my bestie (Matron of Honor and best friend since 1st grade 25+ years) and my cousin (Maid of Honor and well cousin my whole life, lol). They're both super supportive and want to help me however, they can. However, it might be a benefit to all of us that we have miles (1,700) and miles (400) between the three of us.

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  • Bree
    Dedicated November 2019
    Bree
    • Flag

    I have a bridesmaid who questions everything I do. And she pushes me to make decisions because she's ready to know about part of the wedding. But then I end up changing my mind and she questions me on why I changed my mind. Super frustrating. I feel like I have to baby her and everything I do upsets her.


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  • Diana
    VIP December 2019
    Diana
    • Flag
    Yes and no my bridesmaids are my two girls. As their mom I get annoyed by their teenage ways (sometimes) but they don鈥檛 give me problems. They also have been really helpful keeping me on task!!
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  • Heather
    Expert April 2020
    Heather
    • Flag

    It's too early to tell!

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  • Emily
    Super April 2020
    Emily
    • Flag

    No, not yet at least. I'm in a wedding in October and I know the bride has vented frustrations about two of the bridesmaids so I think it might come at some point but I wonder if it'll be a true frustration or just stress and someone to take it out on.

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