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Lynnie
WeddingWire Administrator October 2016

Do you get annoyed with your bridal party?

Lynnie, on May 21, 2019 at 11:24 AM

Posted in Family and Relationships 110

Time to fess up! Have you ever gotten annoyed or irritated with your bridal party? Or has it all been smooth sailing? What happened that got your blood boiling?? Are you innocent or guilty? Next Question: Have you gone over budget? Back to the Beginning: Innocent or Guilty?

Time to fess up! Have you ever gotten annoyed or irritated with your bridal party? Or has it all been smooth sailing? What happened that got your blood boiling??

Are you innocent or guilty?


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Next Question: Have you gone over budget?

Back to the Beginning: Innocent or Guilty?

110 Comments

  • Lindsay
    Devoted July 2021
    Lindsay ·
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    So far so good! I have my five closest friends and they have all been very supportive and positive! It helps that they all know each other and get a long wellSmiley smile I am hoping it stays that way since they haven’t had to do to much yet Smiley smile
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  • mrsaj2b
    Master October 2019
    mrsaj2b ·
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    Innocent. No bridal party here. ;-)

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  • Nodyia
    Expert October 2020
    Nodyia ·
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    OMG I'd started out with 8 girls and now Im down to 2 it took 2 of the girls to really mess up and I was like that's it Im not stressing over this not for my wedding

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  • Hannah
    Dedicated June 2020
    Hannah ·
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    I chose to have a limited bridal party, only have 1 Matron of Honor. I think another friend of mine is annoyed by this, but she has already volunteered herself to be our officiant, so it all ended up working out. Just don't ruin your friendships over choosing a bridal party, FCOL.

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  • Jamie
    Expert May 2020
    Jamie ·
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    Only with one of my sisters... we've always been very different from each other and she's a lot less organized than I am and can be hard to please sometimes... My fingers are crossed that everything goes smoothly with her on my big day!

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  • Kaitlyn
    Dedicated September 2019
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    Innocent, we got lucky all the girls are sisters and we all get along like a big family of sisters, and the guys side have been long time friends that all are very nice.

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  • K
    Beginner November 2019
    Kathy ·
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    Guilty, about the dresses, I gave a color and expected to have their dresses ordered, my mom too!! No decisions so far. The groom either except color.

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  • Shara
    Beginner February 2020
    Shara ·
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    No they are bomb
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  • Elizabeth
    Expert September 2019
    Elizabeth ·
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    No, I picked my bridal party and they have free reign within my bridesmaid dress requests. Long, navy dresses. MUAH, jewelery, and shoes are up to hem. I'm giving them silver clutches they can carry in lieu of flowers. The clutches are large enough to hold essentials and can easily be used again for any special occasion.

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  • Jessica
    Savvy October 2018
    Jessica ·
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    Just my sister (Maid of Honor) but she always annoys me. My other bridesmaids were my good friend and my cousin, and they were fine.

    I had one friend say she'd do it, and then when I sent the email out about the bridesmaids dresses, she texted me and said she couldn't do it after all because she had a "family thing" she just found out about back in Pennsylvania. I just started talking to her again this week.

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  • Andrea
    Master January 2021
    Andrea ·
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    To be honest, no. They are all chill and younger than me. It's a pretty good situation all around.

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  • Erika
    Dedicated August 2020
    Erika ·
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    Innocent thus far, my bridal party is fine

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  • Shana
    Dedicated October 2019
    Shana ·
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    No. I have kept them out of the planning entirely. I tell them where to be and when, and what to do. They aren't likely to annoy me much anyway.

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  • ALYSSA
    Devoted September 2019
    ALYSSA ·
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    When it came to their dresses, OH YEAH. Even though they were with me for my trials and saw you don't get to try on the dress in the size/color you need, 2 especially could not get past it when we went to David's Bridal. "It's too big, it's too small, I want to see it in our actual color"... THAT'S NOT HOW IT WORKS AND YOU KNOW THIS, even our associate would exchange exasperated looks with me, "welcome to my world" was my response. Then one of them suggested azazie, which was fabulous and picks the one dress with plunging neckline, like literally to her bellybutton.. and I said no..... FOUR TIMES on four different occasions before she moved on.

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  • Kayla
    Dedicated May 2021
    Kayla ·
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    Not yet and I hopefully won't but there's always a chance I suppose!

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  • Jessica
    Dedicated September 2019
    Jessica ·
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    Don't have a bridal party..so no. My daughter is the flower girl and I get annoyed at her sometimes.

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  • Renee
    Super October 2020
    Renee ·
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    My only problem is that my sister/MOH likes everything I pick and sucks at helping me choose something when there's multiple options lol
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  • S
    Savvy December 2019
    Samantha ·
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    Innocent, for my bridal party; I have my two sisters are my bridesmaid and my fiance's sister is my maid of honor; they have all been great and we haven't run into any problems :-)


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  • Shilo
    Dedicated October 2020
    Shilo ·
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    Guilty! One of my bridesmaids told me that she was jealous of me because of the engagement & she also becomes "busy" anytime I try to talk with her about the wedding. She also told me that she won't be attending most of the bachelorette party because she'll feel uncomfortable, at the same time, no one even knows what the MOH has planned. I would love to have all my girls there for the whole day/weekend. Drives me crazySmiley ups

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  • Erin
    VIP September 2023
    Erin ·
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    My bridal party consists of my 2 best friends and they both live out of state so expectations are low. They're busy and I fully understand that. I just want them standing next to me on my big day, I don't need anything else.

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