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Your Engagement Ring: Total Surprise, Some Input, or Picked it Out Yourself?

Lynnie, on June 18, 2018 at 5:55 PM

Posted in Wedding Attire 90

How did you handle engagement ring shopping? Was it a complete surprise? Did your fiancé(e) ask one of your best friends, or ask you directly (or indirectly )? Did you go shopping together and have lots of input? Share what you did, why, and how it worked out!! Photo by Manda Weaver...

How did you handle engagement ring shopping? Smiley diamond

Was it a complete surprise? Did your fiancé(e) ask one of your best friends, or ask you directly (or indirectly )? Did you go shopping together and have lots of input? Share what you did, why, and how it worked out!!


cfb_979568.jpgPhoto by Manda Weaver Photography in MD


While you're at it... share your proposal story and who you told first !

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  • Allie
    Super September 2018
    Allie ·
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    He knew i liked the halo style, but we never went shopping for rings, and he also knew i wanted my grandfathers great grandmothers diamond put in my setting! And he did a great job!

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  • Soon2Bmrsp
    VIP May 2019
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    I picked mine out but the proposal was a surprise. I love my ring, it's different to me and I love the uniqueness that it holds, it's antique but 1 carat and it was the best price, lower than we thought that we would send.

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  • Lynnie
    WeddingWire Administrator October 2016
    Lynnie ·
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    That's so cool! We went ring shopping together! He was too stressed to make the decision without me involved so we just went together! Smiley shame

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  • Lynnie
    WeddingWire Administrator October 2016
    Lynnie ·
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    I love your ring!! It's gorgeous! Smiley love

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  • Lynnie
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    Lynnie ·
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    Love this! I shared my Pinterest board with my (now) husband as well, and he still begged for more guidance! Smiley laugh


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  • FutureMrsDiBattista
    Dedicated July 2019
    FutureMrsDiBattista ·
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    My fiancé built my ring! the only thing I told him I wanted out of a ring was the twisted band. I had no idea he was even thinking about proposing when I told him that, but that’s what i got!

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    Beginner August 2019
    Shawna ·
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    Total surprise!!! He asked my parents, brothers, and children 4 months before he proposed to me at my family reunion. Gorgeous older ring that is not brand new, but I love it because he did it completely on his own and did a great job.

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    Savvy September 2019
    Steph ·
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    FH and I picked it out together. My EXH picked out two rings I absolutely hated. FH told me the ring is something I will wear for the rest of my life and he wanted me to love it and love wearing it. We looked at several different places and rings before we decided on what he wanted to purchase, because my face lit up just looking at the ring and I didn't have that look anywhere else. He proposed with two of my best friends being there.

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  • bethf
    Devoted August 2019
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    Suprise, I started faux planning the wedding and getting ideas so he thought I knew lol Totally clueless Smiley laugh

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  • K
    Dedicated July 2018
    Kristi ·
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    Total suprise, i didnt even know he bought it or was thinking about asking!! He did good though. He knows me well. Lol this is a picture with my wedding band i just got the other day!😁

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  • Randa
    Devoted October 2018
    Randa ·
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    We went together to pick out each others rings. Since we both have to wear them for the rest of our lives we agreed to do this. And boy am I glad we did. I thought I knew exactly what cut I wanted, but I was surprised when I put it on my hand how terrible it looked lol so needless to say we went to a few places to find the perfect one that I liked and looked great on my hand. Now the proposal was a surprise. I didn't know when it was going to happen.

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  • Mrs.Sanok
    VIP September 2018
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    It was a surprise. I just showed him styles that I like. FH then recruited my little sister to help pick it out with him! They both did an awesome job!

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    Beginner August 2019
    Taylor ·
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    It was a total surprise to me we had been engaged for about a year one day he called me up at work and said he had a surprise he showed up at work with a teddy bear larger than me a card and a little jewlery box
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  • Future Mrs. K
    Savvy September 2019
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    Total surprise but he knew the shape I wanted! So in love with my ring!

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  • Riya
    Super November 2018
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    We went together. He and I had very similar styles so it wasn't hard picking out what we both liked. He actually gave input on the design that I hadn't considered, so I felt like that was the perfect amount of uniqueness for us. I love my ring and I love my FH!!!

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  • Jessica
    Beginner July 2020
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    Complete surprise. Everyone constantly compliments on how he did a great job picking it out! He sure does know me well😁😁
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    Beginner September 2019
    Elizabeth ·
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    Complete surprise!! My fiancé designed the ring himself and had my best friends final approval. He got a lot of ideas of my Pinterest wedding page.

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    Just Said Yes August 2020
    Shaybreha ·
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    I picked out the ring a couple years back (a beautiful white gold ring with rose gold accents and a peek-a-boo setting underneath), but he completely blindsided me with the proposal itself. He took me to a really nice dinner and had my best friend come to film the proposal - he then surprised me with a little desert/get together with my family and all of my best friends!

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  • Sharon
    Beginner December 2020
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    The ring is his great grandmas ring, she got it from a friend and it’s been passed down from daughter to daughter and then to son and he proposed!
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    Beginner October 2020
    Rebecca ·
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    We had been talking about getting engaged for ages! I have him some ideas of what I liked, different gems (I'm not really a diamond girl and he doesn't like the conflict), different cuts and all that. He ended picking a beautiful oval Australian black opal with tiny little diamonds on eitherside. I loved it he got it off of etsy. I'm heart broken because the opal fell out while I was cleaning at work and its lost forever.
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