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SunshineJenn
Master August 2014

QUESTION: Is the number important?

SunshineJenn, on November 6, 2013 at 11:25 AM Posted in Community Conversations 0 81

Not your wedding guest list number, but The Number?

I have no idea how many people Lee has been with. He has no idea how many people I have been with. We've been together for four years and it's never come up and I think neither one of us really cares all that much.

But do you?

81 Comments

Latest activity by Future Mrs. Coombs, on November 6, 2013 at 8:46 PM
  • Megan
    Super June 2014
    Megan ·
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    Same as you .. don't care. Don't want to know.

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  • We'llAlwaysHaveParis
    Master November 2013
    We'llAlwaysHaveParis ·
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    We know.

    I had to know, I think, but that conversation was long ago and far away and I haven't thought about it since until now ROFLMAO

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  • TheOGJesse's Girl
    Master March 2014
    TheOGJesse's Girl ·
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    I have no idea... well, I am sure it's more than I want to think about because he was a bartender in New Orleans for a while. I am quite sure he never went home alone. I also have a policy of "Don't ask the question if you may not want to know the answer." So I never asked. I haven't been with that many really.

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  • Laura
    Master November 2013
    Laura ·
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    At one point this did come up, and we talked about it. It's been a few years ago. I don't think either of us really cares.

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  • CaitlinWife
    VIP November 2013
    CaitlinWife ·
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    Well, we have the same number and its low, so that's ok. I'd want to know regardless. Even if I didn't like the answer, it would drive me crazy to not know.

    What not to do: Tell them you're a virgin if you're not. NOT ok.

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  • L
    Master February 2015
    LetItSnow ·
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    I NEED to know. He doesn't want to know so I haven't told him. I don't really care how high or low his number is, but I just feel it is important for me to know. Maybe I'm just nosey. haha. I think it tells you a bit about the person. I've been like that with everyone I've ever been with. I always ask.

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  • Lisa
    VIP September 2014
    Lisa ·
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    I don't think he cares but he must know that mine is higher than his. We've never talked about it and won't ever. He was only with 1 other person before me but I was with a few more than that!

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  • FutureMrsDelpra
    Master October 2015
    FutureMrsDelpra ·
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    We know as well. It was an important conversation for us to have, but it wasn't like FH or I would have went running for the hills if one had way more than the other. He's only slept with two girls, including myself & I've only slept with 3 guys including FH. It's a nice detail to know about someone's past, but it's not a deal breaker.

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  • FutureMrsG.
    Super February 2014
    FutureMrsG. ·
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    FH won't tell me and I am actually happy he hasn't, I have only asked him once. He was a man whore before me so I care not to know. He knows my number. Since he was a man whore before me, I made him get tested before the first time we had sex.

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  • Mrs.Rebeiro
    Master April 2014
    Mrs.Rebeiro ·
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    I know his exact - He has an idea and doesn't fully want to know because he is a very jealous person about those things..

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  • P
    Expert December 2013
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    We haven't had this talk.... but I have a pretty good idea about who he's been with (like I have previously said we hung out with alot of the same people)... I'm probably higher than him though.

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  • winnipegwriter
    Master September 2015
    winnipegwriter ·
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    We knew each other's numbers, like, a month after we started dating.

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  • MNA
    Master April 2018
    MNA ·
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    We both know. None doesn't exceed one hand, FH's barely does, so we're both okay with it.

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  • Mrs. Shanon V
    Master May 2014
    Mrs. Shanon V ·
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    Let's just say I heard about him before I met him.

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  • We'llAlwaysHaveParis
    Master November 2013
    We'llAlwaysHaveParis ·
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    ^^I love that response :-)

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  • *Mrs_D*
    Master October 2014
    *Mrs_D* ·
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    We know eachothers, or I guess I should say we did at one point. I think they are actually almost exactly the same... I can't remember anymore. All that matters is us now Smiley smile

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  • SunshineJenn
    Master August 2014
    SunshineJenn ·
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    Hahaha, so his reputation preceded him, along with something else...

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  • We'llAlwaysHaveParis
    Master November 2013
    We'llAlwaysHaveParis ·
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    LOL

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  • Out the Window
    Master May 2014
    Out the Window ·
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    Not to me and he doesn't know everything about me. Lets keep it that way Smiley smile

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  • mc4dj13
    Master November 2013
    mc4dj13 ·
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    I was the heartbreaker of the two of us, but magically we have both been with the same amount of people.

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