QUESTION: Is the number important?

He doesnt care, in his eyes Im one of the "good girls".. lol He is pretty charming, was single for years before me so I dont want to know.. I know its higher than mines

Kyle was in the military.

No, I don't want to know. LOL!

Great question...he knows mine but he never did tell me his. I wonder...hmmm

I would want to know - but we're both at 0, so I guess you'd say we're even.

I think we asked each other like weeks after we starting dating. Lets just say we both had our share of fun.

Shanon H. – Haha!

We’ve been together since we were 18 so when you’re young and dumb that’s something that immediately comes up. And considering we got together at such a young age, both our numbers are low.

Yes, I would care. But he has only slept with 1 person (me) and I have only 1 person (him) So it's all good

We know each others and this had conversation probably around when we started dating. Neither of us care.

I could give a rip less...

We know, but we're both very low. In fact he is my one and only and I'm his only "more than twice" haha. The only reason it was brought up was we had the whole uncomfortable STD talk before we got physically involved.

It came up when we started dating all those years ago. I cared then because we were both young, but if I were to date a new person at this age, I probably wouldn't care.

Adding here that I definitely cared when I was younger; seems as I've gotten older and more comfortable with myself, I just stopped giving a rip.

…and no I don’t think it really matters.

We had the discussion when we first started dating. His number is 1 more than mine but I had been in more relationships than him (he had 1 before me, he is my fourth relationship). It wasn't so much the number as what we have learned (good or bad) previously and that we were "safe" each time. The only STDs around here are the Save the Dates (which are almost ready to be sent) LOL!

His is higher, frat boy with a 6 pack and love for older women.

I have no idea why he told me about that.

KirstenMichelle – haha, at least he was brutally honest?

I think I know his number, which is bigger than mine (since I've only been with him). When we started dating 6 years ago, I didn't care, just didn't want him to bring it up :-P

Emphasis on the "brutal" part...took me a while to get over that insecurity

We have been together for 3 1/2 years and this hasn't came up. I would rather not know his number and I certainly don't care for him to know mine. The past is in the past.

This was an issue with us because I saved myself for him, and he did not. His number is very low, but it was really hard for me to get over thinking he was comparing me to them. But I now fully believe him when he says it's different with me