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LC
Super March 2011

Are pearls too clasy for a modern dress?

LC, on October 27, 2010 at 12:42 PM Posted in Planning 0 14

My sister offered her pearl earings and necklace as the something borrowed but I'm not sure if I want too. My dress is too modern and I will be wearing a silk flower headband. What do I tell her? I will feel bad since she already offered. They are so pretty but I'm not sure if I want to wear pearls...

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Latest activity by LC, on October 27, 2010 at 3:20 PM
  • Mrs Cupcake
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    Mrs Cupcake ·
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    I need to see the picture of your dress to able to answer your question. I love pearls :-p

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  • Elizabeth
    Super October 2011
    Elizabeth ·
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    I think pearls are always appropriate. my dress has some really modern details, but i am going to wear my grandmother's pearl necklace, along with some other more modern necklaces. i am accesorizing up!!

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  • Mrs Cupcake
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    Heck for Christmas party, I wore a very modern colorful skirt with white ruffle tank top with pink cargain sweater over it with long pearls necklace with modern necklace as well. I always mess with jewerly with fashion.

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  • Victoria C. Hernandez
    Master July 2011
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    I'm not sure where she got this but my mom said she was told that you don'tt wear pearls for a wedding because they represent tears... no I suppose they could be tears of joy but for whatever reason the brides on our family don't wear them... could be a hispanic thing but you could use it if you dont' wanna wear them

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  • Victoria C. Hernandez
    Master July 2011
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    ok I got clarification from my mom.. there is an old saying that said pearls were the symbol of tears and each pearl would represent an occasion the husband would make her cry. Thats why we don't wear them

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  • Cabell
    Master May 2010
    Cabell ·
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    If you don't want to wear pearls, don't wear them. But I don't really understand how they could be "too classy." The whole appeal of pearls to me is that they go with a wide range of formality.

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  • Shannon S.
    Master March 2011
    Shannon S. ·
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    Could you wrap the pearls around your wrist and wear them as a bracelet?

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  • M
    Master March 2011
    Mrs. Boat ·
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    Pearls basically go with everything Smiley smile

    Show us a pic of your dress and we'll be better able to help you Smiley smile

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  • Ava
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    Ava ·
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    I agree with Mrs Allen. Show us the dress and the pearls! Haha, but seriously, I think it will go just fine. If you want tho, you could pair the necklace with another necklace to modern-it-up. I'm doing a multi-strand necklace that includes pearls and some other pieces so it goes with my modern dress. Just a thought. Good luck!

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  • Jennifer Nowadly
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    I agree that pearls can go with a wide range of looks and can never be "too classy" In our jewelry shop alone the styles using pearls range from casual to formal as seen below.



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  • Cabell
    Master May 2010
    Cabell ·
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    Let me just reiterate: if you don't want to wear them, don't. :-) It doesn't matter WHY you don't like them if you don't; you're not obligated to wear them.

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  • Fun bride
    Master November 2010
    Fun bride ·
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    Pearls are very traditional wedding jewelry, and seriously whatcould be too classy for a wedding?

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  • Adrienne Lenz
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    Pearls go with anything!

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  • LC
    Super March 2011
    LC ·
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    Ok, this is the dress.

    http://www.essensedesigns.com/dress-D1032

    Victoria, I have also hear that about wearing pearls on your wedding day. I'm not too superticious but better safe than sorry. Besides, I had something else in mind, like diamonded jewelry, CZ, something else besides pearls.

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