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Mrs Roberts
Expert November 2011

December 31st Date Bad Idea??

Mrs Roberts, on July 28, 2011 at 10:10 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 9

Hi Ladies,

FH came to me with this bright idea to have our wedding this NYE. I am growing to like the idea of it but I wonder how much of an issue it will be being that it is right after Christmas. So you know I had to come to you all to get your opinion!

His family is well known where he is from so there is a lot we would get free or next to nothing pricing so it works perfectly as far as location. With the extra money we will fly my family in since the travel will be far for them. I am just concern if I would be asking too much having it so close to a 'expensive' holiday!

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Latest activity by KT, on July 28, 2011 at 11:33 PM
  • Tach
    Master July 2012
    Tach ·
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    It's probably gonna be hard to find venues and vendors specially if you're planning on doing it this year since it's already so close.

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  • Wicked Lizzie
    VIP September 2011
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    My sister did it it was small maybe 60 ppl and was over early around 5 and then ppl had the evening for there plans

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  • Glenn
    Master February 2012
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    I think it's a bad idea. I wouldn't want to attend a wedding on NYE

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  • Faith
    Expert June 2012
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    My father and step mom had there wedding on 01/01/01 and just about everyone they invited came and we have family spread across the country. i think it would be fun to celebrate the new year with something so big and important in your life...(have reception go past midnight so u can celebrate new year!)

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  • J.S.
    Master June 2010
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    I look at it the same way as I did my DW. Are you going to be disappointed by nit having everyone you would want there? There were 15 of us for a week in Punta Cana for our DW. We had an at-home reception that was casual which is what we wanted. I did not want a traditional wedding. My opinion is that holiday weddings are not traditional weddings since people often already have plans.

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  • Meghan
    Master August 2011
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    For starters, I wouldn't count on getting anything free- especially on a major holiday. Most vendors will be charging a premium and just about everyone even remotely halfway decent will be booked already.

    You are asking alot to have your guests attend a wedding on NYE any year, but especially without too much advance notice.

    I have already been invited to 2 NYE parties and it's only August. However, I hate being out on NYE since there are so many drunk people on the road... We usually go somewhere we can sleep over.

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  • Vanessa <3
    Expert May 2013
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    I would like going to a wedding on NYE, I think it'd be fun! However, I think I'd want pretty advanced notice. 5 months is cutting it close.

    Also, everything will be way more expensive, especially hotels. So your OOT guests might not appreciate that so much.

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  • Ab
    Master October 2011
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    I personally wouldn't like it..nye is huge for going out and many people make plans way ahead of time or have long standing traditions.

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  • KT
    VIP October 2011
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    My best friend had hers this past NYE.

    Pros: your closest friends and family will all be together for the new year, if you use Christmas decor you can get clearance stuff (but have less time to prep), you kill 2 party birds with one stone Smiley smile

    Cons: if it's not where you're from there will be a lot of people who can't make it (flight expense goes up, hotels charge more, etc); people who aren't as close to you may leave for their own plans to ring in the new year (after dinner, half of the guests cleared out to get to other parties), taxis were damn near impossible once the wedding was over

    We had a blast and the bride & groom had a blast, but it ultimately depends on your situation.

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